What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 49
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Singapore
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Transport
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

Messy Interracial

How long ago did this hookup happen? 20 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A quite attractive black girl who said hello to me in a bar.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was working in a Pacific Island country and was staying the night in a hotel in a provincial town. The hotel had a disco attached to it and guests had free admission. I walked in and was the only white person there. A girl said hello to me as I was walking around and after having had a good look about, I went back to the bar where she was and ordered a drink.

We got talking and after a while, I started tickling her fingers out of sight. She seemed a bit surprised and looked at me questioningly, I looked back at her and she squeezed my hand. I told her my room number and left. A short while later she joined me in my room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started kissing and my hands began to explore, at this stage she seemed a bit reluctant and said that she had her period. I said it was okay as I’d done it like that before. We put a towel on the bed and started having sex. After a short time we changed positions to doggie style, she lay flat with her bottom in the air. I reached over to her breasts and tried to get her into a more upright position. My hands caressing her as I did this caused her to climax and I could feel her jerking, shortly afterwards I came as well.

A while later I asked if I could do it again and she agreed. I got on top and I could feel her arch her back to get me as deep into her as I could get. She kept asking if she was the first black girl I’d ever had. I came and she smiled.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She left a short while later

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Her telling me I was the best fuck she’d ever had.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The state of the bed afterward, blood stains everywhere.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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