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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? New York City
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Music Execuive
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Voracious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 150+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Met at Gala Party

How long ago did this hookup happen? A year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? About 43, blond, in shape, not beautiful, but good looking.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was very drunk at a gala after party after a big event. Everyone was drunk and having a blast. I met these two women who were friends with someone I knew there. It was very flirty very quickly with Caroline (i’ll caller her). She was there with her husband, who I never saw…he was on the other side of the room. She locked eyes on me as we were introduced and maneuvered over to be next to me and touched me a couple times. I know something was going on. I’m not even sure how quickly, but within minutes, she leaned over and told me she wanted me inside her. I was just laughing and joking and not really paying it much mind. She looked around and led me to the door where the caterers were coming and going to the kitchen. We went back there and turned down a hall and started making out.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Within seconds she had her panties off and her dress lifted up and my cock was out in her hand. I picked her up and laid her down on a table. Mind you, it was dark, but this was 15 feet away from an open hallway where servers were going back and forth. We were wide open. Anyhow, she laid back and I went down on her and she got off very quickly. I kept going and put my fingers in her pussy and she got off again. No penetetration. She explained she was in a miserable marriage and hadn’t had sex in over a year. We tidied up and went back out to the party. I ended up making out with our mutual aquaintance later that night. The next morning, very hungover, I went to the airport to fly home and find out my flight is delayed by 3 hours. So I texted Caroline and asked her if she wanted to help me kill a couple hours….she immediately drove up to the airport and met me at the airport hotel. I got us a room and we had full sex and more oral sex. We fucked fairly quickly. But she got off and I got off.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterward, I think she felt a little bad about her husband, and I felt a little guilty, but it was exciting. We became FB friends but we’ve never gotten together again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend that i was traveling with

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? She’s married.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fucking in a a busy kitchen hallway

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She was married and obviously reaching out for some kind of sexual connection, but that’s all I had to offer.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? nope

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Love it if everyone has the right intentions

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Very interesting

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!