What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? New Zealand
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Teacher
What’s your current relationship status? Mistress
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Met On The Net
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 and a half years
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I started chatting with a guy on Facebook. We had become friends through a mutual friend. He began liking some of my posts and this piqued my interest in him. We began chatting and within a day or two it became sexually orientated. I sent him a pic of my titts in my bra and it accelerated from there. He was a complete stranger and a fair bit older than me but I found our chats intriguing and he made me super horny. He sent me a video of him wanking and I loved the look of his big hard black cock so after about 5 weeks of messaging I was keen to meet him for a hook up. We arranged to meet at a motel in a town halfway between our own towns which are over 2 hours apart.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Our sexual chemistry was immediate and we began sexting each other and messaging many times each day. We were both married, myself for over 20 years and him over 30, but we were sexually bored and we excited each other. We had masturbated whilst messaging and wanted to meet each other physically to play out our sexual desires on each other. We met at our predestined motel, greeted each other with a cuddle and kiss and went for coffee first, at his suggestion. I just wanted to fuck him then and there in the car park, but being a lady agreed to a drink and some small talk first.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The sexual tension was too much for me, after 5 weeks of chatting via the internet and planning an extra marital hook up I just wanted to screw him. He was older but so hot he practically oozed sex and I needed to have a taste. We went back to the motel on my suggestion and barely got through the door before I jumped him, madly removing his clothes and trying to ravish him. We moved to the bed and kissed and fondled. He worked beautifully on my pussy and I enjoyed sucking on his cock but needed him deep inside me pounding and thrusting as we’d talked about doing so often. Oh my gosh….he satisfied me more than anyone ever. We only did oral and vaginal sex on this occasion and it was amazing to fuck someone other than my husband and he enjoyed screwing a woman other than his wife. We had no inhibitions and the talk was as dirty and crude and fun as the sex. He was my second affair.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After our hook up, which began at around 9:30am and I left about 3.30pm, I missed him terribly. I’m quite sure he missed me too. The sex was amazing as was the company. The next day I craved more and was hoping he’d want to see me again for another hook up. I loved his thick black cock.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A couple of close friends. They were surprised but yet supportive and maybe a little jealous.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The excitement of being with a married man and me being a married woman was incredible. The whole taboo part of it. And the mind blowing sexual connection we had.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having to leave and go home to our separate towns not knowing if I’d see him again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Absolutely! I love experimenting and am open to trying anything anywhere.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Having sex with a married and bored man is awesome and so much fun.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love the Casual Sex Project.
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