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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29, but I was 19 when I first participated in the MFM threesome
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? New York City
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I’m willing to try just about anything once.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

MFM Threesome

How long ago did this hookup happen? The last one was in the summer of 2012.

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Well, my girlfriend at the time was 18. She was Chinese and a beautiful girl, with long black hair, beautiful eyes, and nice thick lips. She was thin but had great curves on her body. She had a shy personality, but a hunger for sex and so did I. We fooled around at first, but eventually we lost our virginity to each other. Our partner in the MFM was her ex-boyfriend from high school. He was 6’5 or so (I am only about 5’10 5’11). He is of Hispanic/Latino descent. He’s a good looking guy, and I am not afraid to say it. He had a “muscular” build as I was more on the slender/cut side.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I think what led to it was me watching porn and seeing how intense the MFM was. The girls that would always be involved in them seemed to be enjoying. I wanted my girlfriend to be pleasured like them. Planning was involved, and the three of us talked about it before it happened. I didn’t know the guy, so I thought perhaps to make things easier I would get to know him a bit. He and my girlfriend would exchange nudes. They would talk dirty to each other. I don’t know why but it turned me on. I saw his penis in pictures too I wanted to see how I would measure up so I would ask my girlfriend to show me. I was shocked to find that we had about the same length but I had much more girth even though he was the bigger guy. I was shocked. Eventually, we got together on a Friday at the last minute to carry out our fantasy. It was at my house in my room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I went to answer the door, and I met him for the first time. He seemed like a cool guy. I made small talk as we walked to my room where my girlfriend was waiting for us. The time came that we were all finally together. At first, it was as awkward as it could be. Nobody knew what to do, even after all the big talk about how we were going to do it. All of us were afraid to make the first move. But my girlfriend being the bravest just flat out said let’s get this going. So she walked over and started making out with him and playing with his growing bulge in his pants. I made my way over to her and pulled down her pants and panties and proceeded to eat her pussy. Next thing I knew she had his penis in her hand and jerking him off while continuing to heavily make out with him. I was enjoying eating her pussy out and pleasing her. Then, she started to give him head. I pulled down my pants and started to jerk myself off; I was extremely turned on at this moment. Although it was a bit akward for me to be in the presence of another naked man. I did have an issue staying hard, but I learned quickly to not worry about it. So I then asked him if he’d like to fuck her first he said sure. As he was putting his condom on, my girlfriend started to suck me off. She was laying down on the bed on her back. He entered her bent down and wrapped his arms around her waist and started to jack hammer her. She loved it; I could tell by the moans she was letting out. I was so turned on seeing her being pleasured. It was like being in a porno. He pulled out and I took a peek at his penis and seemed as though he went soft. My girlfriend wanted more though so it was my turn. I put her into doggy and started to fuck her. It felt so good. She was giving him head trying to get him hard again. It’s possible that at this time he had already cummed or was just having trouble getting hard. We eventually all got our rocks off though. We hung out for a bit after until he finally left. I found it a little weird he kept his shirt on throughout the experience. When he left, I was still horny so me and my girlfriend had sex afterwards too. I think all in all it was a positive experience for all involved. I mean we would all eventually end up doing it about 5 times over the next few years.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? As I stated before we did it a few times more. Each time got better and better. The next day I felt/thought wow I can’t believe that I did that it excited me because of the taboo nature of it. My expectations with my girlfriend were perhaps we would get married one day, but we were very young so who knew what the future had in store for us. Well, she is my ex now but I have no bad feelings towards her and wish her nothing but the best. As far as the guy is concerned, I have no bad feelings towards him either. I wish him all the best as well. It’s funny because we had both expressed that we should friend each other on Facebook, back in the day. We never did but I did come across his Instagram profile recently. I would do a threesome again, but as I expressed to my ex after we broke up, it would have to be with him and her cause of the comfortablity that is already there.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was a brand new exprience. It was all about trying to figure out a way to make it work.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Probably being around another naked guy having sex.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It did, and I’m very curious to try new things sexually. It made me discover my sexuality at a very young age

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Really enjoyed watching my girlfriend getting plowed as I was jerking off to it. Made her my own pornstar.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great place for people to share experiences. Also, it could help people decide if certain experiences are for them as well.

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