What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Professional
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Good looking guy we knew in high school who I later hired at work. We were casual friends.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were all on a business trip and my wife and I tried a threesome with another guy that didn’t work out because he was nervous. We wanted to try again so I instigated but she was a willing participant.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After working a trade show we had dinner and drinks then went to the jacuzzi. There was enough flirting between them that he sensed something, we went to his room, she went to ours to change. He and I had a beer, he told me how lucky I was and I asked if he wanted to find out how lucky. He said you mean a threesome, I’m in. She arrived in a loose t-shirt and sat between us on the couch. We were all nervous, he went to pee, she asked what was happening, I replied he’s in. He came back and sat down. We were complimenting her body so she should show off, she got up and slipped her shirt off, unhooked her bra, dropped her big tits out so we started playing. Soon they were kissing, I slipped her panties off and started licking and fingering her, she was playing with his crotch so he got up, straddled me so she could suck his dick. I hadn’t seen him before, he had a nice 6″ dick like mine but with a big head. Soon we made our way to the bedroom and switched places, he went down on her while she sucked me. She came and pulled him up to fuck her, it was awesome seeing his dick slip in her pussy. After fucking awhile, I laid down, he pulled out, she mounted me and he went behind us and slipped in her ass. She screamed a little but really got into it, cumming at least twice. I felt him tense up, shooting his load in her ass, pulled out and cum ran down around my cock as I pumped it and my load in her pussy. We all collapsed and laid naked for awhile, I went to pee and came back to her sucking him hard again. I watched as he fucked her again then I followed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We worked the next day, talking about it occasionally. We got together 3 or 4 times after that at home

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only each other

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was very natural and satisfying

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I was more comfortable with my own sexuality

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Fun to read about others

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