by anon

Gender: Female
Age: 36
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Co,  usa
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Technical
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 33
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Mid-Day Relief

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 days

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Booty call

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I am a single mother.   I’ve been single for almost a year.   At this point in time, i was quite sexually frustrated and masterbation was no longer satisfactory.   I created an online profile on a few dating sites and went on a few dates.   Unfortunately, being a mother and newly divorced, dating was not really in the picture, but sexual frustration was.  While scanning profiles,  I came across a profile for a married man that just wanted a little extra in life with discretion.   This seemed perfect.   Sex and no strings attached.   We sent several messages back and forth and agreed to meet at a hotel mid-day.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We agreed to meet at a hotel halfway in between where we both lived.   There was a lot of planning involved as neither of us knew each other.   We discussed contraception, time, place, whether or not we could trust each other, etc.  It was a bit stressful planning.   Initially, we weren’t going to meet for a few weeks.   He sent me a very descriptive email about a sexual encounter between us and I was eager.   I requested time off from work and booked a hotel.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He knocked on the door of the hotel room, and I looked through the peep hole to verify he was the same person I had seen in pictures.   He was and I let him in.   He was shorter than I had imagined but quite attractive.   We chatted  a bit on the bed.   I told him I wouldn’t make the first move so he did.   we started kissing, and he moved on top of me.   He was very strong and intense.   It felt wonderful.   He took off my shirt and bra and caressed and sucked my breasts.  I took off his pants, he took off mine.   His cock was engorged and well proportioned.   I took it in my mouth and licked and sucked it.  I discovered the sensitive areas  with my tongue.   In the meantime,  he rubbed my clitoris exciting me even more.   We were both enjoying ourselves immensely.   After a while,  he moved down, sucking my labia and rubbing all the appropriate areas with his tongue.   It was vigorous and extremely erotic.  I could not contain my pleasure.  He came up to kiss me and inserted his cock inside me.   We found a great rhythm moving up and down and both came within a few minutes. It was a fabulous experience and more than I had hoped for.  I was trembling all over.   He was an amazing lover.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? We both did.  Had there been time,  I would have loved to go another round.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We both discussed beforehand to use condoms, but they were not used.   He claimed he had had a vasectomy.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? The sexual experience.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We chatted a bit longer.   He needed to pick up his kids from school and I needed to get back to work so we both showered and left.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? We were both wanting it, but both wary having never met before.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Absolutely not.   It was better than a day at the spa.   I felt fantastic afterward. Still do.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Worst: I wish we would have used a condom.

Best: absolutely exhilarating.   How often do you leave work in the middle of the day to have fantastic sex?

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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