Race/ethnicity: Look white but I’m 1/4 Mexican
Location: Bellingham, Washington
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 weeks
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends with benefits
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is a cute, educated 30 year old from the South who just moved to town. We meet one night at a baseball game and just clicked. We have made out a couple of time before and I am very attracted to her even though I wouldn’t classify her as my type.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Just a night out. She met me at the bar that I own and we were hanging out with other people. She looked at me and we both got silent and both asked each other “what?” She responded first and said “I was just thinking that I want to fuck your brains out .” I called a cab and she mounted me in the cab.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we got to her place we just went at it. When her bra came of she has the most amazing breasts that didn’t budge an inch. I am recently divorced and have a 2 year old so I haven’t been with another woman in a long time, but my god the sex was amazing. There is no way I should have lasted as long as I did and made her cum 4 times. It’s like we could read each other’s emotions (I’m actually kind of getting turned on recounting it). It was all pretty straight forward sex. I went down on her for a bit. Then she got on top, I had to stop that cause it can get me off way too quick. I then picked her up and slammed her on the bed and I got on top. We were there for a while and then she wanted it from behind. When I finally came it was so satisfying. She kept saying “wow we work well together.”
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Unfortunately we did not and we didn’t have a condom either. It was not a very smart move at all.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I think she is hot and we have fun and clearly she likes me too and it was just time.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A good amount of alcohol was involved but we were very alert but not enough to drive by any means.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We then spooned for a while and went to bed. When we woke up we made out a little and I fingered her just enough to tease. She drove me home in the morning and we kissed again. I was very stoked on the whole situation. I want it to turn in to something more but I know that would freak her out. I still am into her and I know for a fact that she likes to hang out with me (we have made out a couple of times since but no sex) but I know if I want more I have to be reserved and take it slow.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My 2 best girl friends. One was very stoked and the other told me to be very cautious.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Well she jumped me so I would assume it was wanted on her end and I was more than ok with it.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No not really. Now I really want to have more sex with her cause it was so good.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was that it was amazing and a real self confidence booster. The worst thing was we didn’t use protection. I am 34 so it wasn’t really a life altering experience in the sense that casual sex is new to me.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I have noticed that I tend to fall for women that are not super emotionally ready for a relationship and I tend to stay away from the women that want a relationship badly. It’s kinda fucked up.
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