What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Great Britain
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Friday night
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? S was gorgeous, half English half Chinese. Mid height, slim with b cups.
She was a friend of my friend’s girlfriend. I met her a few months ago on a night out and we talked all night. Nothing happened and I had to go early.
Next time I saw her we didn’t chat all that much but were friendly and flirted.
So for the 3rd time we saw each other we hung out together all night as the group sat at a table in the bar. We chatted so easily and I found myself really liking her.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After a while she leaned in and kissed me. Her lips were full and the kiss felt great. We sat at the table kissing passionately. I kissed her neck a lot. It must have seemed strange to everyone at the table. Eventually at the end of the night everyone got up to go. She came in a taxi to my place with 1 of the other girls. I gave the other girl some bedding so she could sleep in my lounge and took S with me to my bedroom.
We carried on kissing on my bed but she made it clear nothing would happen. She wanted to sleep in the same bed, a nice thing to do at the beginning of a new relationship, but not have sex. We undressed and fell asleep in our underwear.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I woke up hours later to her on top of me. She was on top of me riding me and moaning. I was rock hard, but being sleepy and drunk, not really with it. It felt good though and I soon came. I rolled over and went back to sleep.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? In the morning we woke and she smiled at me. It was very confusing, I don’t think she knew she sleep rode me! I was a bit shocked I guess because let’s face it, if the boot was on the other foot that could be sexual attack. She ran her fingers over my body and seemed to be seeking some mutual tenderness but I just waited for her to stop. Her friend was awake and they left. I didn’t contact her or see her agin.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Fertility awareness (days counting, temperature)
What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I was too out of it / passed out / asleep and therefore unable to give consent
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They were too out of it / passed out / asleep and therefore unable to give consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told people we just wanted different things. I’ve never shared the sexual bit or heard her side
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? A relationship or more wholesome sexual encounter would have been preferable
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She was a great kisser and we were really into each other just for those few hours. Her moans were hot.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The uncertainty of the sexual stuff
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Drunkeness can be really dangerous. My best sexual encounters have been sober ones
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
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