What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60s
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Florida
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Horny opportunist
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Many
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Several
How long ago did this hookup happen? 40 yrs
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Galloway was an 18-yr old, slight build, light complexion, blondish, nearly hairless body, cut med cock, pinkish rosebud, lips, nipples, helmet head. Pretty & cute. About 68″H, 130#. He shared a room in the barracks with me. He had just entered the service, I was in my 2nd year & out-ranked him.
I had a constant hard on all the time thinking about having sex with him.
I was 20, over 6 ft, good build, good looking.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? In the military, anything that could be considered Gay-acting in any way could become a problem. Had to be very cautious. He had a buddy from his hometown that joined with him under the Buddy System in place at that time. A euphemism for Queer System in my book.
His buddy, Looker, was a short, fat, ugly, fat lips, fat ass, shit in my opinion, no way would I have had any sex with him, ever. He had a sway over Galloway, since they were 12, fortunately, Looker was assigned to a different platoon. He would visit G every night after training or duties. In my room, with me there, he could not have sex. He tried to get me to leave them alone. No way! He hated me & was jealous of me.
As I later deduced, Galloway had been trying to dump Looker for some time.
Being in the same room & also showers, we got to see each other naked every day, eventually, we even had hardons. But nothing ever said. He would follow me to the showers or I would follow him. If nobody there, we started to cop some feels. Now we knew where we stood. It was frustrating.
I became in charge of the duty rosters. So, one weekend I assigned Looker to weekend guard duty, Friday 4PM to Sunday 4PM. He would be on a differ post with no way of visiting.
G & I made arrangements for that weekend. Saturday, Noon, got our passes and left the post. But not together, so as not to have witnesses. We met at this hotel in town & took a room.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The door closed & we went at it big time, smooching & feeling each other up. Got naked, fucked him in the ass, then I blew him, swallowed his load. We then did everything to each other until about 7 PM.
He left & went to a bar where we all hung out at times, he ran into some of our friends & started drinking beers with them.
I left a little later, picked up a girl I knew & went to the same bar, for a while. G & I came back to the barracks at differ time.
We each had alibies & witnesses that we were not together if Looker should investigate.
We were able to pull off a few more escapades in the future.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Great
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? later to lovers
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Got my rocks off in a beautiful boy
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Ended
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I wish I had gotten his home address for the future
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Everyone should do it
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Helpful & interesting. Would like to hear from like-minded persons, if it is permitted. At
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