What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 26
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Royal Navy
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Free Spirit
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Lost count
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
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How long ago did this hookup happen? A week ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met him through initial military training and we grew close from then on as he was always hard working and dedicated to getting things done. Appearance wise he’s fit and a good looking lad if I’m going to be honest. We never hooked up before as he was more like a brother to me and as far as feelings go, I love him but not in the sense of wanting to be in a relationship or anything. Just that good brotherly love and I would always look out for him. I got you, you got me kind of friendship.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began after a night out at a local club and me going back to his cabin to have a few more drinks and watch a film but that’s not what happened. We stripped down to our boxers and started watching the film and chatting about how fun the night out was. I then made a statement “I’m sure you’ll rather be sleeping or doing something else instead of this” and his response was “Yea, I want to f*ck you right now”. That response he gave just changed everything in an instant which resulted in me following up by saying “Get to it then”.. and that’s how it started. No planning involved, it just happened in the moment.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started out kissing, and I’m not going to lie, the way he kissed was amazing. It just made me get hornier and hornier as we kept on. He started sucking on my dick and that too was amazing. In that moment I felt like I was in the clouds, but what sent me crazy was when he started eating my ass *sigh*. Tongue in and out and I couldn’t help but to grab onto his head while he was doing it. Though knowing we aren’t supposed to be doing this, I had to return to favour so I starting sucking on his cock, and I shit you not, I sucked that cock like a kid in a candy store. Looking at his reaction I knew he was enjoying it. I ate his ass and then I allowed him to try and penetrate me but that was a struggle as I was too tight. I then went back to sucking his cock and out came a massive load into my mouth and down my throat it went because I swallowed it all. That wasn’t the end of it, we took a break then started round 2 in the 69 position sucking each other off. We got so horny that we wanted to fuck each other but we were both too tight. We wanted each other so badly. He shot another load and I did not hesitate to swallow that either. We then went to bed and he woke up horny at around 5 am and we were at it again. I never knew how much I loved my mate until that moment and we’re definitely bad for each other. In the moment, he wanted me and I wanted him, I tried to let him into my ass by all means so he can fill me with his load, but that didn’t go as planned so he came all over my hope instead.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup we showered then went for a meal then parted was as we live on different sides of the camp. We didn’t talk about it but I do hope that it doesn’t affect our friendship I’m no way as I really like him as a mate. I’ve lost a lot of people in my life and friends that I thought that would be around for me and I don’t want it to be the same with him just because of what happened. Few days passed then I started feeling bad about it because the scene replayed over and over in my head and I kept thinking about him and questioning my sexuality and because we never talked about it, I don’t know if he was feeling the same. How I felt about him in the start compared to now is still the same though, I’ll always love him as a brother and I really hope it stays that way.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Haven’t talked to anyone about this hook up. I’d rather it just be a moment that we both shared and kept only between us.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Because the few days after the hookup, I started thinking that our friendship would drift apart.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The Experience
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The thoughts of losing my best mate
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It changed a lot of things but it’s just another life experience.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I honestly don’t want to lose my mate 🙁
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? That people be able to tell someone how they honestly feel without having to worry about the Negatives.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a good platform for people to express themselves.
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