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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Financial Analyst
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Highly Sexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Mind-blowing Adventure in the Philippines

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This happens when I was visiting the Philippines. She was Filipina. She has normal boobs and great hips. I met her on some chat website, and we both were into hookups and were both a little sexually active.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We started chatting on that website first, then exchanged our Viber numbers. Then we started chatting there. I told her about my intention of getting laid in the Philippines, and she agreed to the fact. We both started video call sex first and then the next day we met for a coffee. I was the one who instigated first.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We met up three times that week and the last time was for a full day. On the first date, we went to a mall, then some restaurant, and then my hotel. We started by kissing first and then we did oral and vaginal. On the second date followed by dinner, we came to have the same stuff, but this time in many different positions. On the last date, we met in the afternoon, went directly to the hotel and did some more. She was also very hyperactive and responded well. Although I have an average size penis, she said it was her biggest. She orgasmed every time and I was in heaven.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We met the next day for just coffee and I said her goodbye as my trip ended that day. We are still in contact and I am hoping to meet her in India soon. We are still fwb and do chats on viber and discuss our adventures with others.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend, she was both shocked and happy for me!

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Freedom to express my sexuality

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing really except she becomes little dominant sometimes XD

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I will feel more comfortable now whenever I get into a actual relationship.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s a great way to have fun, but only when done responsibly and keeping in mind that you should respect your partner and her privacy.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? You guys are doing a perfect and a wonderful job.

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