by Chantel


Gender: Female
Age: 23
Race/ethnicity: Coloured
Current location: Johannesburg
Highest education received: High school diploma
Occupation: Self employed
Relationship status: Single and ready to mingle
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Freaky
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 23

Miss Thing

How long ago did this hookup happen? Frequently

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? All of the above

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I get partners with different personalities, they differ with statue and form. Most of them are adventurous, fun loving and outgoing.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? On line

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We used to phone sex everyday.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Oh, it depends on each of them..but most of the time yes. Other times I just faked it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Absolutely used the rubber. No mistake.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Just needed to explore other avenues, my steady partner became boring and non-intimate.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A definite no.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt good I wanted to do it again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My kinky friend

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Wanted experience

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It taught me a lot about sex that it stimulates the mind, and also boosts one’s metabolism…

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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