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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Philippines
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? AVP
What’s your current relationship status? Separated but with stable GF
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Straight
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? More than 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? This is my 1st

Missing it…

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last night

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 5ft tall, petite, sexy, ordinary face, well rounded boobs and bums, mannered, and shy. Just started talking to her at the corner of the street. Never knew her, never met her before. Attractive and curious.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was driving and saw a lady standing by the corner. I have already passed by then I decided to make a U-turn just to go back and stop in front of her and talk and ask. No planning was involved more on should I do it or not.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She was really shy at first – but it went all the way for 4 hours. From foreplay to oral to sex to some kinky stuff. Really good as she is very happy and got to kiss her much and well even after.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We got coffee and tea after and parted ways with a kiss and a smile. I didn’t get her number – just really a one night stand. I didn’t give my real name.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, We talked and agreed

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, Power / Dominance, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The connection, better yet – sex.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wanted more.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No – just gave me more courage to do it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was fun, felt different being inside her and the feeling of guilt was I would say a bit good.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good stuff!

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