What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 57
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? NC
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Finance
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Open
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 70+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

MMF Turns into MM

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a 30ish guy around 5″10 with a runner’s build. He was in fact a marathon runner. Met through a Craigslist ad. He was really attractive.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had set up a MMF with my girlfriend and him, I’ll call him Josh. At the last minute she had conflict and couldn’t make it. I called Josh and told him the situation and he suggested we go ahead and meet for a beer since he was almost there. We met at a local bar and when he got there we talked for a bit and had a couple of beers. The conversation lagged a bit and out of the blue he asked if I wanted to go ahead and play. I was already horny and jumped at the chance.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went back to my place and he asked if he could take a shower. He came out of the shower with a towel wrapped around the waist. He had a ripped body! I had stripped to my underwear and was lying on the bed, he came over dropped the towel and started rubbing my cock. He pulled my underwear down and starting sucking my cock. He was great and I totally was into it. He looked up and said he wanted to try to bottom, but wasn’t sure if he could. I was down, I love a nice ass male or female. He got up on his hands and knees ass up! I got some lotion since I didn’t have any lube and covered my cock and his asshole. I lined up and started to put my cock in a little at a time. He started the push back but he was starting to hurt so I had to pull out and let him relax. I went back in and got a rhythm going and started to pound his tight ass while he played with his cock. We both came and I pulled out.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We got dressed and talked a little and he had to get home. We made plans to try to hook up again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fucking a hot young guy

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great

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