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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Consultant
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Heteroflexible
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 39
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Modern Blowjob

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Was feeling promiscuous so downloaded Grindr and got a match with this guy who was hung. Went over to his place that night.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was planned, we were going to watch a movie and I would go down on him.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I got to his place and then had a few drinks and we started to watch Modern Family, and about 5 minutes in, I turned to him and said “how about that blowjob” and got on my knees and took off his pants. His cock was soft but after putting my mouth on it for a few seconds it started to grow into a monster! I started to lick it and then proceeded to put my mouth and suck on the head for a good 10 minutes and then deep throated. He had to get me to stop a few times and one of the times I took my clothes off and sat next to him. He then got up and throat fucked me and told me he was cumming but when I tried to take him out of my mouth he finished and got a shot in my mouth and had to spit it out. He then jerked me off until I finished.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We cleaned up and chatted for a few minutes and then I left.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Power / Dominance, Everyone else was/is doing it, Boredom, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I told him not to finish in my mouth but in the heat of the moment he did.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was super relaxing.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Unexpected throat finish.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? About the same.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I wish that I didn’t feel guilty about it.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It has allowed me to come out as bisexual.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it is great!

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