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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Ireland
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Banking
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? About 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Two weeks
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had known K for a good while, but only at a friend-of-friend kind of level. I hadn’t really noticed her in the past, but at a house party over the holidays I suddenly noticed how attractive she was, or had become. K is about 5’7, slim, with great boobs and a good ass. We had gone on a few dates, and hooked up a lot in the two months after the Christmas holidays. We had a great physical connection, and the sex was really hot. For various reasons, we weren’t matched romantically, so that side of things fizzled out
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We hadn’t spoken in a few weeks, and I had no definite expectations that anything would happen between us. After getting back from a weekend away, I got a message from her, letting me know that she had a free house, some pizza and drinks, and saying “could be fun ;)”. I admit I just looked at the message for a few minutes with a cheeky smile on my face. I’ve rarely been in booty-call scenarios and the casual simplicity of the message, and invitation, was very appealing. While I didn’t want anything romantically to develop from a meet up, her message made it quite clear she was on the same wavelength. Shame to waste good pizza and drinks…
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I called down to her house she greeted me with a big smile, looking very hot in a low cut top and a fitted skirt. After some pizza and one or two drinks, we started to cuddle a bit on the couch. I suggested we head upstairs to her room. It felt odd but empowering to be so direct about where the situation was going – not having to couch it in preliminaries or waiting till the end of a night. As we got to her room, she went about cleaning away a few things, and I went and lay down on her bed. I think we were both navigating the ‘how does this work’ dynamics of a booty call, given we’d been together before months earlier.
After a minute or two she came over, and got onto the bed with me. I lay in such a way that her only real option was to crawl up on top of me. Pretty much immediately we found that physical connection, and any awkwardness went out the window. We made out, her on top of me. Our clothes started coming off pretty soon thereafter. I sucked on her lovely breasts and pinched her nipples. When she was down to just her thong, she took off my boxers and starting giving me head. As much as I enjoyed her mouth on my cock, it was when she started simultaneously playing with my balls with her hand that it got really good. I asked her to sit up on my face so I could taste her. After licking her vagina and clit, I suggested 69, and she turned around on top of me. This was really amazing, getting to lick her out, while being pleasured. I licked her ass too, as this really get her going. I used my fingers too, first on her pussy, then one in her ass. This got her going so much she said it was time to fuck her.
I put on a condom, and began on top of her missionary. After this she got on top of me, and started getting really into. I pulled her close to me and rode her really fast, thrusting into her from below. She shuddered and came.
After a brief recovery, we got back to it. She lay her on her side, as I kneeled on the bed and entered her. I got some lube, and put one finger up her ass. After a minute she suggested I fuck her up the ass. I covered her ass and the condom in lube and slowly worked my way in. She was tight, but told me to keep going. Once I was halfway inside I started gently thrusting. I then filled her ass with my dick and started thrusting properly. This felt amazing, and I could tell she really enjoyed it. After a few minutes she came again, really shuddering.
After this we did doggy style, me really getting to thrust into her, while grabbing onto her ass and hips. I spanked her as I thrust, enough for her to really enjoy the submission of the experience. I built up momentum and came hard, letting out a groan.
She said I was welcome to stay, but that she had to get up very early for work in the morning. After some cuddling I got dressed and headed off, preferring to get better quality sleep in mine. Enjoyable night
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I knew nothing significant was going to come from our relationship, but it was really empowering to know I could have fun in that kind of one-off booty call scenario. We haven’t messaged since, but a similar meetup in future is not off the cards.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel more confident, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few friends. They were surprised to hear it happened, but generally positive. Given I’d gone on dates with her before, one friend commented that it was good to be able have casual sex, but to be careful that she also see’s it as ‘just sex’. Another female friend laughed and mentioned how she just doesn’t understand casual non-committed-relationship sex at all
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was really enjoyable sex. Proved I can have fun sex casually and not feel guilty or lonely after. Nice to have a situation like that present itself
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It being a once off, and not wanting to make it too regular a thing for fear of complicating the dynamic
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I feel casual sex is more an option now, as long as both partners are on the same wavelength. I learnt to be more direct about what I want or expect and communicate less self consciously during sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think more of a distinction should be reached between ‘having lots of sex’ and ‘having good sex’. Casual sex can be great, but too often, for myself at any rate, it is for the wrong reasons, and is not something I look back on as a positive experience.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Amazing. I love seeing how others interact sexually with others, learn from their experiences, and how ‘normal’ sexuality is, once discussed openly
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