by Alex

Gender: Male
Age: 40
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Michigan, USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Office
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Well over 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Mongolian Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This was an interracial, heterosexual married couple, female-black, male-white.  I was getting a to go at Mongolian Barbeque and this nice looking black woman was in front of me.  We started talking and continued to do so until our food was cooked.  I was actually having my food as a take out.  When I went to pay for my food a white guy came up to me and said, “Hey-I noticed you were talking to my wife.”  I responded, “yeah, she’s a nice lady.”  He beamed a smile and said, “well she is totally into you and thinks you’re very sexy.  Her birthday is next week.  You wanna be her birthday present?”  I was floored for several reasons–1) this guy didn’t know me at all, what if I was some kind of fundamentalist Christian or something? 2) his wife was great-looking, 3) et etc.  I said, yeah, of course I would.  We exchanged numbers and spoke on the phone later.  We arranged a date at a restaurant.  Afterwards, I went in the back seat of their SUV with the wife giving me head while hubby was driving us around.  We didn’t fuck that night.  We met up about a week later and got a room at a hotel and I fucked her mercilessly.  Hubby wanted to join in, she actually pushed him away and things got briefly awkward!  Anyway, we wound up meeting up about a half dozen times thereafter.  The relationship sort of pettered out and I’ve fucked well over 100 women and a lot of those stories are also very amazing but the experience of being propositioned in a public restaurant by a guy to bang his hot wife is a tough one for most guys to beat I would think.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Mongolian Barbecue.  Husband propositioned me to fuck his hot wife.  It didn’t happen that very night but shortly thereafter.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I fucked wife while hubby watched.  Hubby wanted in on the action after about 30 minutes and wife pushed him away.  Things got awkward and we split up for the night.  We did reconnect later and had several more successful nights together.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes I did.  I’m pretty sure she probably did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I’ve had a vasectomy.  We did not use rubbers.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Fun.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We went home. I felt great about it.  We met up several times thereafter.  I feel positively about them both.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends.  They thought it was incredible.  They were impressed.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes.  Very consensual and very much wanted by all parties.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Aside from the great sex, the best thing was how it made me feel about myself.  This woman was not the kind of woman that would have a hard time getting a great looking guy for casual sex; the fact that both her and her husband solicited me at the risk I might have clobbered them with such an outrageous request says a lot about how desirable they perceived me to be.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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