What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 23
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Montana firemen: most dangerous hookup
How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Oh my. This was a sketchy one night stand indeed. I noticed he was cute on Tinder since he was a firefighter in Montana. He was from Jersey and we bonded discussing Taylor ham sandwiches. I couldn’t drive since my family had a rental car (I’m on vacation mind you)- I told them I was meeting a guy at a brewery. My phone had 2% battery (this idea kept getting worse).
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He picked me up outside the brewery in his beat up car…. I was terrified and excited. I mean- I’m meeting a stranger in another state with a dead phone; if that’s not testing fate what is?! I was super horny and he hasn’t had sex in 8 months due to work. I told him I just wanted to fuck (honesty). He drove 20 minutes to his house with me in tow.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We kissed and then he went down on me. His mustache felt odd! We then proceeded to vaginal sex. (I had stopped at Walmart prior to buy condoms). He didn’t make eye contact with me in the car but he warmed up later. His dick was amazing: 9″ and thick. Wow. He was great- we cuddled after and it was quite lovely. I did give him some oral since I had bragged about my deepthroat skills to him. I really didn’t want to but knew I was in a very vulnerable situation if I said no so I went ahead and did it.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close.
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt good and I felt like I liked him. I know there’s no future because we don’t live in the same states. If I was ever in New Jersey I would visit haha.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms.
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, it was easy/convenient.
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs).
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it.
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I texted a girlfriend who said you go girl!
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The demand for oral.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’m proud of myself for not judging myself after. Although I wouldn’t do something that risky again.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I do NOT recommend anyone repeating what I did. I thought I might end up raped or murdered since I never met him prior and immediately got into his car with no phone access. So don’t repeat this (have a drink with them and have your phone charged first in case things turn sour…).
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would like to do away with slut shaming. My female classmates know I go on a lot of dates (I have casual sex with a select few of those) and called me a slut while I was in the same room. It’s ridiculous that women are judged for what men are commended for. It’s instilled self judgement in me over something that’s natural to desire. I use protection every time and I shouldn’t be made to feel like it’s immoral.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it!!!
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