What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 43
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

More Than One FWB!

How long ago did this hookup happen? About 22 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The girl, we will call her J, was FWB with me and the other guy. We didn’t know that she was doing this with both of us for the first couple of weeks because we were each keeping it on the down low.

She was 19 and a petite redhead with a great figure-skaters body. Although her boobs were kind of small, they looked incredible and touching or sucking them was an instant turn on for her. The other guy, we can call B, was like me. Just under six feet, in good shape thanks to lacrosse, and had dark hair.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We found out about her being with both of us and decided to see what she would do if she came over to one of our houses and the other guy was there. It was the mid-afternoon and she was shocked to see me at his place. She didn’t realize we knew each other. We let her wonder what was going on for about 15 minutes before we told her that we knew. Then we all smoked some pot and hung out for probably an hour before sex came up. We both said we knew her BF was coming that weekend and we were disappointed. I steered the conversation and we eventually told her we were both really horny and asked what she thought about letting us both be with her. At first, she said no. We persisted and soon she was saying it would be so bad if people found out. I knew at that point that she wanted to do it, she just didn’t want to get caught.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We assured her it would be our secret. I watched as she unzipped him and sucked him while he fingered her. After about ten minutes, she was spread eagle and she got fucked on his basement couch. He was very wham bam, fucking her hard and fast. He told her he wanted more after me. I always loved her on her knees, so down she went. I stroked my cock as she sucked me. I sat down and she was on all fours next to me. She kept sucking me as I fingered her and pretty quickly she put a condom on me and got on top. This position was great because I could pinch, suck, and bite her sensitive nipples. I liked talking to her during sex and her BF would often come up. I suggested B come over and join us. She got up and walked over to him. She knelt between his legs and sucked his limp dick, I followed and slid my dick inside her. She moaned and lerched forward, reached behind and pulled my hips into her. “Please, you guys cant ever tell anyone about this.” We assured her we wouldn’t. She asked if I’d stop fucking her so she could suck us both and I figured I would try it. We stood, she knelt and went back and forth sucking us and after a little while I was cumming in her mouth, stroking as she sucked again. A short time later he fucked her again and came on her little ass.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We double teamed her twice more before it ended a few weeks later, both times in a hotel off campus and very high.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish, Hallucinogens (LSD, mushrooms, DMT…)

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My wife when we were dating, after she confessed getting double teamed in college on ecstacy. Recently, she said it’s her top fantasy for us, as well as having another woman join us.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The long blowjob. In the following two times we double teamed her, spit roast and all the other positions and I liked her moaning and trying to scream while sucking me. Fucking her by the hotel window hoping people would see!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The awkwardness afterwards each time.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Always loved it

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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