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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Netherlands
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Lawyer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual

Morrocan girl

How long ago did this hookup happen? 10

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met on a dating site and soon our conversation became very flirtatious. It appeared that she was a nice, small Moroccan girl who wanted to discover her freedom far away from her conservative family.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I invited her to have a drink in a big city. We had a very sparkling conversation. We smiled a lot. After some drinks, I invited her to visit an Italian restaurant, where we ate pizza and shared a bottle of red wine. Then I took her hand, looked into her eyes and told her I wanted to kiss her. We kissed for the first time passionately above the table. Then I suggested we search for a hotel room, which she silently agreed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We left the restaurant while holding each other’s hands, touching each other’s bodies. On our stroll to a hotel, we could not stop to fondle and kiss each other. Our kisses were very passionately. Her lips were very soft. Her scent was very seductive.

The first hotel we found was complete, so we had to find another one. It was was already deep into the night. We found a big hotel, checked in, received our card and steps into the lift. In the lift, we felt the need to feel each other’s skin under our clothes.

She was the first who entered the room. When I followed her, I stood behind her and took her by her hips and started to rip off her clothes. We fell on the ground and made out very heavily, while kissing, feeling and moaning. She also let me touch her shaved wet inner thighs. My fingers slipped inside her wet pussy very easily. We succeeded in taking out each other’s and our own clothes, at least our trousers.

Then she climbed on the bed on her fours, showed me her butt and asked me to fuck her.

I was prepared for a fuck and had taken condoms with me, but at the moment I did not have any patience anymore. It did not help me that she did not have any patience as well, while showing me her behind very explicitly and sighing loud that I let her wait. So I instantly decided to enter her bareback. Inside she felt hot, soft and wet. After 10 seconds I shot my full load deep into her pussy.

Then I decided to lick her pussy, which she accepted eagerly. She lay on her back and opened her legs for me. I sensed her drowned pussy, while caressing her breasts and regularly engaging in passionate French kissing. After she had one or two orgasms I entered her again bare, this time missionary style. The fucking lasted for about half an hour. I could not reach an orgasm anymore. We got tired and fell asleep.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning we did have some cuddling. I invited her for breakfast, which she agreed. We discussed last night, especially the lack of any birth control. She told me that her girlfriends did have the experience with how difficult it is to use condoms.

We kept in touch. I have dated her some more times, but we did not fuck anymore. We lost attraction. Some months later she told me she did have a boyfriend, who made her pregnant, but she decided for an abortion because she was afraid to be expelled from her family, but she regretted it afterwards.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The excitement, the passion, her smell

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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