What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 37
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States – Iowa
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 6-9
MSP Snow Delay
How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My suitor would end up being a bit of a thin otter 6′ guy with and nice upward-curved cut cock with a big head covered in longish trimmed pubes. I was on a return trip to have a job interview in California and returned to a blizzard warning at MSP. My car, not built for the 5″ that had fallen plus drifts up to 18″ meant I needed to stay the night before commencing my 3-hour drive home. I pulled up my work travel sight and booked a room near the airport.
I was in a committed relationship at the time and she knew about my bisexuality, however, she didn’t know I was acting on it. Still, I was on the prowl and not content with the home sex life. I didn’t act on it regularly but coming off the high of killing the job interview and getting an alone day, I was horny and looking.
I get checked in and am greeted by this taller, lanky desk clerk who has a pleasant smile and piercing eyes. He’s a few years younger, let’s say 24. After he gets me checked in, I remember him saying with emphasis, “If you need anything, you can call us directly. We’re happy to make your stay pleasant.” That resonated with me…was I being hit on? I casually ask how late the bar is open, and he says, “they are open, but with the weather, they may close up at midnight.” Well, that gave me 2 hours to pound some drinks and make the best of an uneventful snow-in.
I get into my room and proceed to dress down to casual wear, as I had been in a suit all day. I put on some jeans and a long sleeve t-shirt and brought my coat. I proceed to the bar and order a snack and a heavy beer, this is 2011ish, so I think it was a holiday beer or imperial porter, something with a higher ABV. I proceed to pull down several 24-ounce glasses of this nectar as aI am cruising the craigslist m4m/mf4m/f4m sections, wanting to at least trade pics with a guy who was “close by 20-minute cab ride”.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? On my 3rd round, I see an ad post up for looking in the MSP Airport hotel I was in. He described himself as mid-twenties, with a slimmer physique seeking play. He had a body pic included that showed a furry tuft on a slimmer torso, slimmer than I was used to. I messaged back through e-mail saying I was staying at the same hotel and was down for some safe fun and was a bottom.
Almost immediately I get a response back that saying that “he saw me and knows who I am.” This causes the pit of my stomach to fall out as I was super nervous about being outed at the time. At the same time, it was a bit of intrigue as this person must be interested. The following message created more ease, as it said, “I meant what I said, that we want you to have a pleasant evening and if you need anything you know what number to reach me at.” At this point, I knew it had to be the front desk clerk.
I ordered another pint, and once it arrived started chugging knowing last call was imminent. The next message was very direct, Into? share pics? With a picture of his cut, longer 6.5″ nice sized cock with an upward bend to his stomach and a thicker head. I messaged back, looking for oral, no kissing (this wasn’t my thing back then, but get it now), and I’m a bottom only if we go there. I did slip in that I was feeling open to safe fun. I added a nice pic of my dick from a few angles.
I order 2 rounds at last call so I could have a room beer, and feeling buzzed continued to drink waiting for a response. He messages back that he likes the showing and I close my tab and proceed through the lobby. We make eye contact and I head up to my room. I message back, if you are curious, I could use someone to check my room at 1 AM.
I get to my room and go and piss and quickly wash up, dressing down to some basketball shorts and a t-shirt. Shortly after 1 AM, there is a knock on my door. I quickly answer in my happy drunk state, excited to have a piece of cock as it’d been over a year. He steps in and asks how’s everything with the room. As soon as I close the door, he leans forward and kisses me. This catches me as a surprise, but I go with it for a few seconds. He says he only has about 20ish minutes to play. I said I was newer to this but eager to please.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We start taking off our own clothes and get down to our boxer briefs. We climb on the bed and talk about safe practices and last partners. He said it had been a while and I said the same, but condoms for anal. He lays down and I remove his underwear over his hard package. It springs out and I grab a hold of it and lean in close as I slowly stroke it. He had a straggly bush and a smaller set of balls in a nice sack. His shaft had a large mushroom head on an average dick and it sprung up to his stomach and took a nice pull down to straighten it out.
I inhale his scent and start licking the tip of his bulbous head. He is moaning as I engulf him in my mouth and try not to gag as I suck him down. I continue enjoying him panting, loving the feeling I am giving him and after he says he needs a second, we flip places and he takes me into his mouth. He did a good job of slurping a bit, but overall just a mild tightness blow job. I am leaning back in ecstasy and ask if he wants to fuck me. He passes for a second but agrees and I produce a condom from my bag. I slide it on him as I could feel his nervousness. I lean him back down on his back and climb onto, using saliva to moisten my eager hole for the onslaught I am wanting. I push down on his cock head and can feel my ass start to burn from being stretched. I lean back and give him a second to take in the feeling and I start slowly plunging down on him as the pain turns to pleasure. Him and I are both moaning as I am riding his cock. He says he is close and wants to suck me more. I get off of him and he strips off the condom. I grab a hold of his hard dick and he engulfs mine. After a couple of minutes of this, I tell him I am close and he pulls off and jerks me off until I blast cum all over my stomach and chest. I proceed to want to finish him off and lean him down and take his latex flavored cock back in the mouth. He only has a few pumps before he says he’s going to come and I clamp down and suck him as I feel his raging hard-on thicken before blasting his load in my mouth. I eagerly lick it all up and release him shortly after.
We say how great it was and glad we connected as he goes and washes up. He proceeds to get dressed and leave shortly thereafter to go back to work.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We said our goodbyes and he later messaged me saying what a great time it was and I should stay here more often. Unfortunately, I never got to connect again. I was nervous afterward about my girlfriend finding out and guilty for not being faithful, but have found that I was just trying to find myself at the time.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Maybe a gay friend at some point, but don’t believe so.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Casual, safe fun.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Same as before. I think casual sex done between consenting people should be more widely accepted.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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