by Bethany

Gender: Female
Age: 27
Race/ethnicity: White/Hungarian
Current location: Victoria, BC
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Sales
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Music Festival Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? July 2014

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-Night Stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My age, slightly taller white male with brown hair. I had never met him before until the last night of a 5 day music festival in Pemberton. We were both walking into the grounds, I was alone and he was with a couple of friends. He stopped to compliment me. I wasn’t sure how I felt about him right away. I was worried he might be annoying but he turned out to be rather charming and funny. He left his buddies to hang out with me.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? There was no planning involved. I was hoping to hook up with someone at the festival. We began by going to the beer gardens for a beer and we chatted until the main act started, we were both excited to see Outkast. It happened organically, we started dancing and making out during the show. When it ended we got something to eat and continued to make out in an empty part of the field. Finally we left the grounds and headed to my campsite to grab the last of my alcohol and we proceeded to his campsite. We knew what was going to happen without saying anything.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to his tent and engaged in conversation before we started to have sex. We actually talked about our favorite mutual comedy series. He had a great sense of humour. His tent buddy was there almost the entire time, seemingly passed out. We continued to drink and started kissing and taking off our clothes. There was nothing sensual about the experience. It was raw and hot. We were loud despite his friend passed out next to us and all the people outside of the tent. While on top of me he grabbed my throat with his hand and applied pressure holding me down. I had never been ‘choked’ like that before and I found it to be arousing. At one point I looked over and noticed his friend had actually left the tent leaving us alone. There was no oral sex and we did every position you can on a twin size blow up air mattress. We fucked for hours (four times) and passed out for maybe an hour until the sun came up. He walked me back to my campsite where my group of friends were packing up our shit to head back home.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did not orgasm, I usually can’t after consuming that much alcohol and drugs. He came at least twice.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He wore condoms.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? This was a personal accomplishment for me. I went to the festival hoping to hook up with at least one guy.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I was snorting key bumps of cocaine all day until I eventually ran out of drugs for good before meeting my hook-up. There was a ton of alcohol involved. We both had been drinking all day, we drank during the show and continued all through the night when we were fucking.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hook up we said goodbye and parted ways. I felt pretty good and happy about the experience. If he didn’t live in another province we probably would have dated or continued as fuck-buddies. We’ve kept in contact on Facebook. We told each other that if we ever visit each others cities we’d meet up.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told quite a few people about the hookup but only told one or two people the actual details. Everyone at my campsite knew what happened and who knows who they told. Everyone was stoked about it.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, yes and yes.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I had never hooked up with a random before while camping or at a music festival or traveling and it has made me feel okay about doing it again.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I’m really glad it happened on the last night. It really completed the whole festival experience for me.

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