What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Seattle
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Electrical worker
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 16
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
My 1st Interracial GF
How long ago did this hookup happen? Seven months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is a skinny Asian/ebony mixed girl with straightened black hair, small breasts, and a tight ass and pussy. I met her at a party and was immediately attracted to her.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I met her at a party, and I knew her friend and asked her to introduce us. I talked to her for a little bit and then eventually asked her if she wanted to go back to my place. She smiled and said okay.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I brought her back to my apartment and went to the bedroom with her right away. I took off her panties and drew circles in her pussy with my tongue. Her juice tasted delicious, and my cock was throbbing. Her pussy was gushing at that point, so I went to slip it in. She stopped me and asked if I had a condom, I lied and said no but that I would pull out of her. She spread her soaking wet lips for me, and I slid in. Even gushing wet her pussy was almost too tight for me. I had to go slow at first until her pussy stretched enough for my cock slide in and out comfortably for her. After 15 minutes inside her, I was ready to cum, so I pulled out and came on her stomach. I was ready to quit at this point, but she was still horny. She then sucked me off until I got hard again, and then she got on top of me. I wanted to cum in her this time so I “found” a condom and put it on. Less than 30 seconds later, she pulled it off saying she didn’t like the way it felt, so we went back to having sex raw. This second time lasted a lot longer, and when the time came, it felt too good to pull out. I grabbed her hips and thrusted deeply as my balls drained into her cervix. She got off me and cleaned the remaining cum off my cock as I passed out.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The following day we had sex again before I dropped her off at her car. She gave me her number, and we hooked up again the next weekend.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Cocaine, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Hooking up with a sexy black girl, having unprotected sex with her, cumming inside her
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? When I woke up, I was unsure how she would react, but she was very positive.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really, besides feeling dumb for not wearing a condom. If she weren’t so beautiful, I 100% would have worn one.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We just texted each other at first and only saw each other on the weekends, but we developed romantic feelings for each other fast. When she told me she was pregnant, we made our relationship official and moved in together. She is due for our first child in Feb 2019, and when she finishes school, we will get married
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s fun and can have unexpected results.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like it.
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