What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 43
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Nurse
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? First one

My 1st Submissive Experience

How long ago did this hookup happen? Today

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met this couple a year ago in at a Lifestyle event. We spoke briefly then and had run into each other about two or three different times since. It has been mostly brief conversations and even some kissing before today.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This couple is into D/s play. I was approached by the couple at a party about being a sub with both the husband and the wife as the Dom. I agreed, and we arranged to meet to discuss terms. We had a meeting about a week ago and decided on a red/yellow/green light system to determine where I am regarding pain and/or comfort level. They asked if I was comfortable being restrained, blindfolded, penetrated with a strap-on, penetrated by the husband, anal play, and impact play. I agreed to any and all.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I arrived at the couples house, and we reviewed our prior agreements. The husband took me by the hand and led me to the bedroom. I was immediately blindfolded, and the wife stripped off my clothes while the husband kissed and bit my neck and shoulders. The blindfold made my skin especially sensitive to every touch, and the wife kissed me softly on the lips while the husband bound each of my wrists and ankles in a restraint meant to be tied to the bed, but at this time hung freely. With their assistance, I was placed on the bed, and each limb was restrained to a corner of the bed, legs forced open. The husband wound my hair up in his hand and yanked my head back, breathing on my open mouth, and the wife went down on me. I was incredibly turned on and wet. I felt the sting of a riding crop whip my inner thigh, and I asked for harder. Then, there was a second whip on my other leg that stung so bad that I saw white and had ringing in my ears. In my pain, the husband started fingering me, and that pain and pleasure became one insatiable need. I was close to orgasm, and I asked him to stop so I could last longer, but instead, he went deeper and harder, and I came. I was laying there shaking and trembling while the couple held me until I calmed down. Once rested, my restraints were removed, and I was rolled over onto my stomach. The husband lifted my hips, so my ass was in the air. A collar was placed around my neck and pulled tight. The husband fingered me while the wife pulled the collar tighter and tighter around my neck to where I struggled to get air in or out and felt light-headed from lack of blood. As the edges of my vision faded to dark, the husband pushed his hard cock into me over and over. With confusion, struggle, and pleasure entwined together and being fucked from behind, I came again. I was released from the collar; I was panting, sweating, and trying to recover when the wife pulled out an exceedingly intense vibrator, one that was some kind of back massager built in the ’80s (seriously). I was shaking my head no in objection due to the intensity of my last orgasm, and she said that she knew I had one more and to give in to the feeling. The husband pulled both of my wrists above my head and wife rested the vibrator on my clit. The intensity was mind-blowing, and again, I could only see white. Gasps and whimpers escaped my throat. The final orgasm overcame me so fast and strong that I had no control over it, almost as if it was ripped from my body. I laid there spent and shivering, and the couple stroked my skin and petted me as I calmed down.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked about meeting up again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Submission / Relinquishing power

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I spoke in detail to my husband about this hookup. He loved hearing the details. In fact, he encouraged me to write up this post

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Learning about pain, my tolerance, and my threshold

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it came to an end.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I learned more about my sexuality.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? What a fun new experience.

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