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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

My 1st Threesome And Gay Experience

How long ago did this hookup happen? 18 Years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? At the time I was 5’8” 165lb stocky guy with minimal body hair, shaved pubes and a 6” cut average cock that sticks straight out while erect. Keri was a Caucasian girl about 6’ tall, stocky build with smaller b cups. She had a trimmed bush and a chubby slit that was smooth. Keri had a thicker volleyball girl type body and was sexually active. David was half Mexican/half African American, stocky guy also about 6’. He was clean shaven and had an 8” cut, thickish cock that curved slightly upward. David was gay (out) and had never had sex with a woman and limited experience with guys orally. Keri was friends with my ex, but we also had flirted some before. David was good friends with Keri. We all went to the same Nebraska high school and had all just graduated.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? During the summer before college on a June Saturday night, and Keri and I had decided to hang out together at her parent’s house (they were conveniently out of town) and drink beer we had stashed away from another party. We had been flirting and likely were going to hook up at some point. I was there probably an hour when David shows up to her house tipsy. We were on her deck with a fairly private backyard in a suburban neighborhood drinking and decided to play truth or dare. This led to dares that culminated in Keri and I making out, boob and penis flashing and finally me having to strip naked.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Keri was up next and took a dare from David to give me a blow job. She got out of her chair and proceeded to get on her knees and give me a blowjob. It was okay, but not the best blowjob I’ve had up to that point. After a couple minutes I asked to return the favor and she lays down and spreads her legs and I start to tongue her puffy slit. David meanwhile was just casually playing with his large hard cock watching us and making comments about how he couldn’t lick pussy. Keri said something along the lines of why don’t I let David suck my cock. I was taken aback by this as I had fantasies about sucking and being fucked by a man and definitely wanted to try it, but didn’t want anyone to know about it). The alcohol helped make the decision as I said, why not, and sat back down in the chair. David came over and was nervously laughing as he got on his knees and grabbed a hold of my cock. He gave it a few pulls and leaned down to lick the head. It felt great and he did do a better job than Keri. He started to go down on me but was gagging only half way down. I told him that Keri could take more than you. Keri was getting lonely and asked if I wanted to have sex with her. David let me out of his mouth and I got out of the chair and laid on top of her on the deck. I parted her labia with one hand as I guided the nicely flared head into her waiting pussy. I remember it feeling very wet and warm compared to the cool summer night however fairly loose. I pumped into her for a good 5 minutes and David gets up and is standing near me watching the show. I watched him slowly stroke his cock, envious of its size and also my secret desire to play with one. I finally work up the courage and ask him if I can touch his large erection and he removes his hand and I grab hold. I was taken aback by the soft skin yet firm rod and stopped pumping into Keri focus on my first truly gay experience. It was such a strong feeling holding his penis. Keri also reaches up to touch it quickly and I realize I had forgotten about her. I continue my thrusting into her while also getting in a position where I’m on my knees. I pull his cock towards my mouth and open wide. It was a lot thicker than I thought it’d be and getting his giant head in my mouth and slowly sucking it. The taste was actually bland but the aroma was a bit musky. I looked down at Keri and she had a look of “oh my god, you’re sucking his dick” in a judgy way. I proceed to continue sucking on David’s cock also realizing how hard it is to suck dick. I gagged at 4” but will say his girth was a factor too. At some point, we ask about anal to each other and proceed to ask Keri if she has any lube. She doesn’t but David and I are scurrying around the house, naked mind you looking for lube. We find cooking oil and go back outside. Keri is smoking a cigarette pissed that David and I are going to fuck as she feels left out. David and I, too horny from our minds thinking about fucking, finally lube up and he gets behind me and tries to put it in me. I remember my hole being too tight and not properly pushing out to take it. After feeling like his dick was a fist punching my hole I suggested swapping. He got on all fours and I grabbed some oil and lubed my cock and his ass. I line up my head with his hole and it just slides right in. I was also taken aback by this and asked him how he felt. He said it was good so I proceeded to thrust into him, but I didn’t get much enjoyment from it. Honestly, I would have rather been in Keri instead of David. I pull out and we each jack off until we both come on the deck. At this time I get a bit paranoid and quickly dress. Keri had already gone inside as she didn’t want to see David and I fuck each other. We get dressed and hang out for a while before saying goodbye and walking home.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was nervous about other people finding out that I had gay sex and didn’t want that label. I also jerked off about the threesome every chance I got. The three of us got together one other time at her house a couple days later. It was again late at night and we hung out for a couple hours. It was actually boring, but I was hoping to get to suck David again. David said he had to leave and I immediately say I have to go as well. Walking to David’s car, I plainly ask if he wants to fool around more. He says yes and we get in the back of his car and hug each other and I grab for his belt and he pulls down his pants. His erect dick springs out and I tentatively grab hold and lean down and suck on him. Definitely, more aroma being sober this time. I suck him and stroke him, remembering to play with the balls. His darker skin was just sexy compared to my generic white tone. After a couple of minutes, he says he’s close and I just nod and keep sucking on him. He blasts his salty and thick cum into my mouth and I realize at that point that I like sucking dick. He pulls out of my mouth and he says that he’ll try to do me, as I finished swallowing his load. I pull my pants down and my cock is leaking badly. David licks the tip and tries to suck me but immediately gags. He says he can’t do it and apologizes. He gives me a hand job and I come in his hand after a couple minutes of him pulling on me. We had an awkward goodbye and that’s the last night I remember hanging out with either of them as I was moving to college out of state in three weeks.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve told some past gay hookups about it. My fiancé knows I’m bisexual.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting to suck and play with a cock.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The awkward rush of it should have been more private about it

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, it was the first crack in me understanding my sexuality

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great concept and it allows me to put my experiences, good or bad, out there.

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