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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

My Best Friend’s Husband

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A is a very handsome man. He was my best friend’s husband. I had always fancied him but I wasn’t sure he felt the same about me. He’s very tall and charismatic.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had gone to my friend’s place and A was doing a night shift. When he came back home after night shift he went straight to bed. My friend and I had a small glass of wine and I decided to go home. When I reached home I received a text from A asking how I was. He also said I looked very sexy earlier. He asked what was I doing. I said I was just relaxing. He asked if he could come over. I said yes. In half an hour he was at mine. As soon as I opened the door he lifted my dress up removed my underwear and ate my pussy. I was very very wet. Then he sucked my nipples and I could feel his hard dick. He took his trousers off and I was pleased to see a massive dick. I didn’t expect it to be so big.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He then slid his dick into me. I am very tight so he said he going to stretch me. He did that and then he fucked me slowly and he asked if he could come inside me. I said yes. Then we both had a shower together. As I dried myself he got another hard on. He pumped me again. This time I took all his cum in my mouth. He went home and said he wants to fuck me on regular basis

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt very nice. I want him to fuck me more. I can’t wait for the next time

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I like how he fucks me. He’s very good in bed.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I want to do more of this.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love it and want to continue

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great

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