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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Los Angeles California
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Petroleum
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

My Best Friend’s Wife

How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was 2 years younger than me – maybe 5’5 – very pretty, chunky at the time but that nice plump meat all around – nice butt – decent size rack – beautiful smile – nice blonde hair

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I’ve known her since we were in high school- she had been with my best friend since then – we would always hang out / double date / travel etc – we would chat on the phone from time to time – we were always flirtatious with each other and one day one of our chats turned into something very steamy – she was sexually frustrated with my best friend – he had been cheating on her and I knew it and I felt she knew it also but never wanted to accept it – so on the chat she mentioned how she hadn’t had sex with him in weeks – I replied that I too hadn’t had sex in a few weeks and she playfully hinted to me that we should take out our frustrations soon- at first I thought she was joking but the conversation kept going on – I held back a little bit thinking I didn’t want to hurt my best friend – but in the back of my mind I knew what he was doing behind her back so I knew she had found comfort in telling me these frustrations -she said the very next day he was going to be gone for work for a long period of time and wanted me to come over – right then and there I knew what was going to happen next- he would never invite me over unless he knew he would be there with her so when she invited me knowing he was gone – it was all but a done deal – the day vame and she texted me that he had just left – she was gonna shower and would see me soon- so I arrived , parked a block away just in case I had to sneak back out- if he would of came back from work and seen me there – I know he would of killed me -but she knew what she was doing

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as I walked in- she was fresh out of the shower – she smelled great- she had scented candles all around their apartment – I mean I’ve been there a thousand times but it just felt different – I was nervous as hell but hornier than shit – I sat in the couch – she offered me food –
We started to drink – we laughed , talked and the text conversation from the previous night came up – she said she was very attracted to me and had been for a while – I told her the same – she has this killer stare and she leaned on for a kiss – we made out for what seemed like forever – she stopped kissing me and stared to turn off the lights – just me seeing her looking outside the window to see if anyone was around , locking her doors was such a turn on- my dick was rock solid , I could feel it pulsating as I knew I was ready to fuck the shit out of my best friends wife – she jumped on me and I started to take off her clothes , I sucked her nipples – ripped her bra off – ripped the button of her jeans off – I had net naked really fast – she took me to their room and I took over – I had spread her legs wide open and started to pound the fuck out of her – she’s loud – her moans could be heard for blocks – I wasn’t used to a woman like that- I was excited – I began to try all the positions and we just kept on going – she was very warm- her pussy wet – her saying my name while I had my dick in her was everything – she told me my dick was fatter than his and now knew why so many woman loved me (the girls love the D) – she cummed and I bent her over – I pounded that ass to the point to where I knew it sort of hurt her but she was loving it- I told her I was about to cum and just let it all in her – she jumped In the shower after that and we continued to fuck at least 2-3 times a week for the next 15 years

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? in between that time frame she had 2 kids and married my best friend – I was the best man – they bought a house and I continued to meet her – we would fuck in hotel rooms / in my cars / at parks etc – she fell in love of me and it got to the point where she wanted us to just leave and live our own story- I had got engaged and had a child with my significant other -she wanted a life with me – she fell out of love for my best friend a long time ago – I knew where they stood – I loved fucking her but I never wanted a relationship because I knew it would never work – we stopped seeing each other about 2 years ago- she divorced my best friend in 2015- she did it to prove that she was serious about me but I wasn’t – I broke her heart and she became very distant – she has tried to move on but she finds her way back to me – we stopped seeing each other about 2 years ago – she got a bf and got very annoying – so I blocked her and haven’t talked to her since

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I never told anyone – i think she told her best friend but that was about it

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Because I let my best friend down

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex and company

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She fell in love

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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