What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Behavioral therapist
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My Boyfriend Shared Me!

How long ago did this hookup happen? A few nights ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My boyfriend of 4 years has this fantasy of running a train on me. He found some guy on facebook, he was chubby and unattractive, but the guy came over, but I told my boyfriend I didn’t want to do it. He seemed upset and I hate disappointing him so I allowed him to find a different guy and said he had to wear a condom. My bf told me that I’m getting fucked regardless of whether or not the guy has a condom. I didn’t see the guy until he got there. He was mixed (Mexican and black) just like my boyfriend. He was tall and very attractive, but his dick was short in length, but it had girth.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were in a hotel when I was playing with my pussy while my bf played 2k, he told me he wanted to run a train on me, I said okay (I’m somewhat submissive to him) he took my phone and told me to keep playing with my pussy while he finds somebody. He found the first guy who came and left because I wasn’t interested in him. He found the 2nd guy who I grew the courage to let in the hotel room where I was already naked.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The guy knocked on the door, my bf let him in, I started sucking my boyfriend and the guy said he never done this before so my boyfriend started fucking me while I put the guy’s dick in my mouth and started sucking him. My bf took his dick out and told me to get on my knees and suck their dicks. I did that. My bf started fucking me again as I was sucking the other guy. He asked him if he wanted to fuck me, he said hell yea. They switched positions. The guy had a hard time staying hard, but while he was trying to get back hard, I was ducking my bf’s dick. I started sucking the guy’s dick and got him hard, he started pounding my little pussy which made me moan really loud and my bf came in my mouth and I swallowed all of his nut. My bf got up and went to the bathroom as I continued trying to fuck the other guy. He apologized for not being able to stay hard. His friend was at the door, my bf said his friend cannot come in. My bf asked him when we were going to be done, the guy said he was cool, apologized to me again and left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Right after, I got in the shower and brushed my teeth. Smoked with my boyfriend and fell asleep, but he came in the bed and I sucked him, he fucked me, and came in my pussy. The next day I felt like a slut, I felt a little off, but I’m glad I was able to please my man. Nothing seems to have changed, I’m still obeying my boyfriend and being the woman he wants me to be.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Submission / Relinquishing power, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t told anyone about it

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fulfilling one of my bfs fantasies

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The other guy didn’t stay hard making it hard for me to satisfy him.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I look at myself as being more loyal to my man because I finally did something I told him i would let him do in addition to being noticeably more obedient to him. We haven’t even argued in a long time and I think having this new mindset is why.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I have a feeling this won’t be the last time my boyfriend will share me and I think he might want to see more people fuck me at the same time

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex has brought me closer to people, but at the same time, it’s possible to have sex with someone whose name you don’t even know without having any feelings.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I don’t know anything about it

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