What’s your gender? Genderqueer / Nonbinary
How old are you? 25
What country and/or city do you live in? Netherlands
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 80+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 6

My Boyfriend Sharing Me

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last weekend

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? T. is my boyfriend, he is in his early 50s. He is bald, tall, stinging blue eyes. He is very skinny and muscular. He has sexy grey hair all over his chest. He is the perfect sugar daddy for me, we have been together for close to a year now and are living together. He likes to show me off as his trophy young femme boyfriend.

F. is a friend of my boyfriend. I know that they have had sex in the past. T. is in his mid to late 40s. He still has full, reddish curly hair. He is rather stocky and has a little bit of a belly. He is a nice guy, not too attractive but far from repulsive when it comes to sex. I have met F. a few times in the past year at gay events, together with my boyfriend. I know that all F. did was hooking up with guys behind his wife’s back. He had done so for years, he does not want to destroy his family life. Or so I thought.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I have been with T. for close to a year now and we have been monogamous with each other apart from this weird episode with my friend from school. (see last story.) We have done nothing especially kinky, just regular sex with the two of us. That almost feels kinky to me. I got to appreciate this quiet, loving lifestyle.

It all started with T. asking me what I thought about F. I told him that I liked him, he seemed to be a nice guy. I didn’t like that he still lived in the closet and is basically cheating on his wife.

T. replied that F. had finally come out and is in the process of leaving his wife and kid. F. had commented on me to T. several times in the past how hot I was and how lucky and old guy like T. should be to be together with a young “man?” like me. (I don’t see myself as a man, but I understand that other people do.)

T. asked whether I am up for something different. He had thought about sharing me with F. as a celebration of him coming out. T.s idea was to invite F. to our place and surprise him with this offer he would certainly not refuse. T. would watch and it would only become a threesome if F. does not mind. Otherwise, T. would just watch. T. had never shared a boyfriend this way before in his life and he was curious about it.

I thought for a minute and then agreed to it. F. was looking good enough for this, and I could stop anytime if I didn’t like it. I would still give him a blowjob, that never hurts.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? F. came over. I had dressed up all femme in a sexy dress, high heels, tank top, and lingerie underneath. My long hair was open, I was wearing makeup and lipstick. I am tall and slim, show no facial hair. I think some people do mistake me for a girl when I am dressed like this.

The two men chatted for a while, we had some food and wine, ended up on the sofa. I sat between the two men. I had already noticed that F. had eyes for me. I was willing to give it a go.

T. started it. He congratulated F. on coming out. To celebrate, he said, I would like to offer you my sugar girl. T. blushed, he was obviously aroused and loved the idea. But he was still shy. So I put my leg on his to make it easier for him. He started patting my leg, I looked at him seductively. I enjoyed the moment, being game. Being a bunny girl.

I sat on F.’s lap and he started to feel my body. I kissed his ear cheekily. It was funny when F. got his hand under my tank top and started groping my bra which of course has nothing but padding underneath. He got it of course and stroked my chest underneath. I also got my hand into his shirt.
I did not plan on kissing around with him. He is not my type this way. I enjoyed the moment and wanted to do him and my boyfriend a favor. Sitting on his lap, with F. feeling my body, I realized that this looked too romantic and F might get the idea of kissing my lips. I also could not see my boyfriend from this position. He was probably watching without getting a good view.

So I stood up and knelt down to F. I opened his pants in a hopefully sexy way. I looked over to my boyfriend as I got F.’s dick out. He was grinning at me, obviously enjoying the show.

I gave F. good head, also nibbling on his small balls as T. went over to F., put his arm around him, kissed his cheek and whispered into his ears. F. nodded. My boyfriend started to undress.

I put all my attention to F.’s dick, giving pleasure but at the same time making sure he would not cum. it was way too early for that, the orgy had just started. When I looked up, my boyfriend was on the couch, getting his dick sucked by F.

I suggested we should all get naked then. I undressed and let F. feel me up again. I was his bunny, after all. We pressed each other’s penises against each other, stroking each other while standing and hugging. F. enjoyed feeling up my arse. He pushed a finger inside, but only gently.

T. was helpful, went to get lube and condoms. I sat on the couch backward and bent over, presenting my arse to them. F. approached my and licked my arse extensively. Then my boyfriend lubed me in while T. put a condom on. As the guest, he had the first turn and started fucking me. My boyfriend kissed me while F. was pounding away. T. masturbated me and sucked my dick lovingly while I was receiving anal pleasures from F. But then T. got horny himself and wanted to fuck.

Both men took turns fucking me. It was pretty intense. The climax was that F. came into my mouth while T. was fucking me. T. came a little bit later, I was still licking the sperm off F.’s penis. I stroked myself a bit and then also came onto the couch.

After this hot orgy, we still cuddled a bit and licked each other’s cocks at times, but I had had enough of anal.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had more wine and F. thanked us for the evening and especially the sex.

Well, this threesome means a break to our monogamy. We will have our relationship more open, I am sure that both of us will fuck around in the future. Let’s see what will happen. I don’t think my boyfriend will seek out other men that much, he is pretty happy with me. Maybe he will share me again and seize the opportunity to be with other men while we are at it.

As for F. I don’t have a strong desire to be with him again. He was ok, but not interesting enough to become a regular fuck buddy.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting, To feel more desirable, Submission / Relinquishing power, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? it was a fun threesome between friends.

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