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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Florida
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Quite a few
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My Boyfriend Was Late As Usual So I Cheated

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’m a petite fit brunette with a dancers body that I take very good care of. My hair is long and flowing, but I like to wear it in a bun too. My legs are long, slender. and toned and I have small perky breasts. I was 20 at the time.
We’ll call him Dave. He is a tall very muscular black guy on my college’s basketball team, and yes it was enormous. My BF at the time, we’ll call him Sean, was a tan blonde haired surfer.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it?  It was my 20th birthday and I was so excited that Sean was gonna take me out to dinner. We had been dating for almost a year. He was gorgeous and the sex was good, but he was very unreliable. He was always late and he would often blow me off to surf or drink or smoke with his friends. My sorority sisters were constantly telling me to dump him but I wanted to make it work even though I was getting very frustrated.
I tried to stay positive and was excited about our date. I put on the cutest little dress I had and was freshly waxed for the night of sex I was planning on having with him. The plan was to meet him at 6 in his dorm room. I got there a fashionable five minutes late and knocked on the door. No answer. Maybe he was still showering or using the bathroom so I waited still eager for our night out. Ten minutes went by he was nowhere to be found. Dave was across the hall in his dorm room playing video games with the door open. All he had on was a pair of basketball shorts and was gorgeous. I shyly asked if he had seen my BF and he said he hadn’t. After 20 minutes Dave realized I was still there and he asked if I wanted to wait in his room. I accepted his invitation and sat down. He looked at me like he wanted to devour me and I felt an instant tingle between my legs. He resumed his video game for just a minute. In that minute I must have checked my phone a dozen times. Then he stopped and turned to me and said: “he left you hanging huh…” I nervously nodded yes. “How about a beer?” he offered. “Okay,” I stuttered. Dave said as he got up to get a beer from his mini fridge.
I couldn’t help but notice how hard and muscular his body was. As he turned to hand me the beverage I could see his monstrous manhood pitching a tent in his shorts. He didn’t try to hide it. I was now soaked. I had never cheated before except for some experimenting with other girls in high school. My exes were ok with that. I was terrified of what might happen and I hoped Sean would get there soon. I tried calling again and there was no answer.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?  He took my hand in his and put it on his stomach and slid my delicate fingers down his dark rock hard abs. I was shaking. Then he reached over and closed the door. I stood up and he grabbed my hands and put them on his hips. I instinctively began to slide down his shorts freeing the monster within. I’d never seen a penis even close to his size. He had to be well over ten inches and it was very thick. He pushed my head closer and my lips brushed the tip as I whispered: “I have a boyfriend,” but it didn’t matter and I was enthusiastically sucking the monster cock. I was loving it. I did everything I could to please this beautiful shaft. After a few minutes, my phone began ringing. I stopped sucking but opted not to get my phone from my purse. He picked me up and laid me on the bed. I spread my legs revealing my smooth pantie-less pussy. He dove in. He tongue was a whirlwind between my legs. He licked my clit, and tongue fucked my pussy and ass. It was amazing and after just a few minutes I was having an orgasm.

He slipped off my dress and his hands wandered all over my petite frame. He took my right breast in his mouth, then my left. Then he got on top of me. He eased his way in and I loved every inch of it going deeper and deeper. He was in a strong but gentle rhythm pumping in and out of my tight hole. He gradually picked up the pace and began to fuck me hard. I began to cum again and pushed him off as I peaked. He laid down and I got on top crying out as I ground on the best cock I’ve ever had. Suddenly the door swung open… it was Sean. He must have heard me. He looked shocked and heartbroken.
I kept grinding it was too good to stop and I panted “go wait in your room we’ll talk about this after.” He stood there shocked and silent. “She said go wait in your room!” Dave yelled at Sean. He left  Dave took me from behind. He pumped me hard from as he shouted: “I’m gonna cum!” “Don’t stop!” I ordered and he pumped a huge load of cum inside me.
Sweaty and out of breath I put my dress back on and kissed Dave and went across the hall.
Sean stunk of weed. He had clearly blown me off to smoke with his friends and any remorse I had for cheating faded away. “I’m tired of you always ditching me and forgetting about our plans and blowout me off to hang out with your friends,” I shouted. “It’s over.”

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now?  I gave Dave a blowjob in the morning and went back to my room to clean up. My friends all rejoiced that I dumped Sean although I didn’t tell them how it went down. I continued to see Dave the rest of the semester and bumped into Sean several times going to Dave’s room. I knew Sean was humiliated but I didn’t care. Sean dropped out and I didn’t see much of Dave in the fall so I ended up dating another guy.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Revenge / Getting even, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I later told one of my sorority sisters and she thought it was so hot. She asked if I would mind if she slept with Dave I told her it was fine but I don’t think she ever did. I fantasized about that becoming a threesome.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was one of the best fuckings of my life.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Size didn’t matter before the hookup but now it definitely does.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It just added to my sexuality.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is a must.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s cool.

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