What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Illinois
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Restaurant Hostess
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Quite a few
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
My Dad’s Friend
How long ago did this hookup happen? Approximately 7 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was not my type or someone I would describe as attractive. He was around 50 years old. He was tall, but everyone seems tall to me since I am only 5’1″, so he was maybe close to 6′. He had a “dad” body, so not fat but not thin. He had a receding hairline and a great personality. He works with my dad so I have known him since I was like 13 or 14. He is married and is also a dad. I was in the store shopping one afternoon for groceries and we ran into each other. We talked for a few minutes and he kept complementing me. He then asked me if I was in a relationship and I said no nothing serious. He suggested we get a drink sometime if I was old enough. I said I was, so he gave me his number and said I could call him if I want to get a drink. I did put his number in my phone but really it was more just to be nice. About a week later, I saw his number in my contacts. I was bored, so I decided to call him just to say hi. He seemed excited to hear from me and he was nice as always. We made plans to meet at this little restaurant called Valentine, which is also a margarita bar. I had never had a margarita but wanted to try one. When I got to the margarita bar, he kept saying how amazing I looked.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began in the bar. It’s a small and dark place. Though I had never been there before, I felt really comfortable, especially since there were only a few other people there. He was constantly complementing me and giving me attention. I had four margaritas, so that helped as well. To be honest, after a while, we both instigated it because we were flirting with each other and we were into each other. I really never saw him that way, but the whole night was just one of those perfect nights when everything came together. I was too drunk to drive, so I asked him if he would be okay with driving me to my apartment. I told him where my apartment was. As we were driving, when we stopped at a light, we would quickly make out just enough to get me more in the mood. I asked him if he could come in when we got to my place and he said he was hoping I wanted him to. When we got to my apartment we had some wine, talked, and made out.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After a while of more drinking, he did not seem as flirty as he was in the restaurant. I told him I needed to pee. I really didn’t need to, but I went to my bedroom and took off my dress and pantyhose. I put on a black camisole tank top and a pair of very small black lace panties. He asked if there was any way my dad would find out about this, and I said no. I took my top off and right away he started to suck on my nipples. By then he was more into it. He slipped my panties off and got busy licking and eating me, which of course I love. I said let’s go to the bedroom. I took his hand and lead him. Once in my room, I undid his pants and helped him step out of them and his boxers. He was rock hard. I pushed him back onto my bed and sucked in his dick for at least 20 minutes. Then, I climbed on top, and since I was soaked, I easily guided him into my pussy. I rode him hard for a while. He asked if I could get into doggy, so I did. He fucked my pussy from behind until he pulled out and I felt him shoot his load all over my back. He came A LOT. I felt great and he did too. He was forceful but respectful which is what I expected from a older guy. We really didn’t talk that much, but he asked me again to please not say anything, and I said I wouldn’t. We had a hug and he said thanks and left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day I had to go get my car, so my BFF took me to do that. I told her I met a guy while I was at work. She really didn’t question me because she’s a good friend. I didn’t think much about it to be honest, other than it was more fun than I thought. I had no future plans. It was just really a one time thing. I still feel the same way about him as always which is that he is a nice guy who I had a nice time with.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, Boredom
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I think the difference in our ages.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I can’t think of any. Well other than having to go back for my car lol.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope
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