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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Adelaide
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Company Director
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? ~
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My Dreamgirl

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 Years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was the girl of my dreams back when I was working at the University. Knew her pretty well as she was in my class. 8 years my junior, slim fit body to die for, tall, blonde.

Pretty much to say that she wasn’t into women, totally straight, and I might just have taken advantage on her while she was drunk one night. I needed to have her.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? On graduation night. Casper’s Club if I remembered well. The entire class was there celebrating. I was a much larger build compared to most of the other teachers and students there. Sipping a drink by the bar.

Dreamgirl. Let’s call her Sam. Just before midnight I see Sam and 2 of her friends heading to the washroom. She looked pretty ko-ed for the night so I suggested her friends take her up to my room to rest and they could return to the club. I would stayback with Sam in the room. They accepted.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Note that back then, no husband with me. Had the room to myself. Her friends placed Sam on my bed, left her shoes on and immediately left. Sam was totally blacked out, eyes closed, in deep sleep.

From the moment she came into the Uni and when I saw her I always told myself I needed to have her.

I dimmed the lights, laid on the bed, touched her skin, soft as ever. She was 28 back then, attached but he wasn’t there at the party. Her breath smelled of alcohol but I still went in for the kiss. Soft lips, she barely even moved. Played with her lips, tongued her mouth, licked her face, neck, savoured her entirely.

I removed her clothing gently, placed it on the bed following by her panties (she had no bra on). I brought her panties to my face it smelled amazing and wet. She was indeed wet.

Sucked those nipples, cupped her breasts, about 34C?. Traced the lines down to her pussy, soaking wet and I licked it, her body jerked. Still fast asleep but her pussy was going with the flow. She was nearing to cum.

Close to an hour later. I called it a night. She didn’t cum but I enjoyed her, she was delicious in every way. I even strap fucked her yet no movements.

Put back her clothing and left her there to sleep.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Felt slightly wrong of what I did as I was aftraid she might remember or was she awake at the time?

Turns out she wasn’t aware of that night. Had a chat with her the next morning.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel better about myself, To feel more confident, Power / Dominance, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Blacked out / Passed out

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? I’m not sure / I don’t know

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Never had the thought that I would take advantage of someone, especially one of my students.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Had the chance to have sex with my dream girl. She was a rare delicacy.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Would have been better if she were awake and consented to the night.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not Really

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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