Current location: Austin
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Health Care
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Hypersexual tendencies
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
My Drummer Boy Fuck Toy
How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 months
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck Buddies
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is a 30 year old Latino Drummer with a popular dance band. He is extremely sexy, muscular, tattooed and is a very talented drummer. A true stud! I first met him while dancing with my girlfriends. He asked us to dance next to the stage. He was hitting on me hard, but I wasn’t overly interested. We friended each other on Facebook, and then exchanged phone numbers. I danced several times when his band was playing before we hooked up. This gave me a chance to get to him better. He is quite the charmer, and I found myself getting more attracted to him each time I danced for him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I have been married to the same man for over 20 years. We have a non-manogamous open relationship. My executive husband promotes my naughty behavior. Physically, I’m a very lucky woman. Curvy, petite and a face that passes for 25. I can sleep with almost any man I want, but always let my husband “approve” my fuck buddy.
My first hookup with my Latino Drummer happened after sexting and exchanging naked pics. He wanted my curves, and I wanted his cock. He then invited me to see him play at a rough club. I am an executive’s wife, and have never been to a a club that rough. I danced in a VIP area next to his drums. I drank vodka and danced for a solid 5-6 hours. In between sets, we talked, made out and felt each other up. I wrapped my little fingers around his large cock, and he had several fingers into my wet pussy.
I think we both instigated it, and he planned it. I think he wanted to see how I’d react in this club, and I’m sure he was hoping that I’d act exactly as I ended up acting!
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We ended up going to his place after leaving the club; with my husband’s full approval of course! We were both slightly sweaty from the club. I cleaned myself up a bit. He showered and applied the sexiest cologne. He came out wearing a towel. His tanned, muscular and tatooed body was super sexy. Large muscles, hard/flat stomach, muscular legs.
We start kissing passionately. I knelt down to suck his cock, but he stopped me. He picked me up like a feather, and put my legs around his shoulders, and then went to town eating my pussy. Then he placed me on his kitchen island and began fingering and eating me. I orgasmed a few times. I wanted to return the favor and suck his beautiful cock, but he wouldn’t let me until I was pleasured first. We then went to his bedroom. He laid on his back, and I sucked his 8″ thick cock. He told me that I sucked cock better then any women he’d been with. At this point, we were both ready to fuck. He let me fuck him on top first. We fucked for at least 30m. I came and squirted heavily. He then got on top of me, forced my legs over my ears, and fucked the shit out of me. He fucked me doggy style, standing up and many other positions that I had never experienced before. The hottest position was with me laying on my side, with him fucking me from behind. I told him that my husband can’t fuck me that way, because his smaller dick can’t get around my curvy ass. My drummer had no problem getting around my phat ass, and really filled me up. He got really turned when I screamed that he fucks me so much better, deeper and longer then my husband. That really got him turned on, and he just fucked my pussy harder and harder. I came and squirted a few more times. He then came deep into my pussy. I realized that it was now almost 8am, and that we had fucked for over four straight hours. I had to get home. We took a break. I saw my husband had texted me. He asked if I had fun, and if I had left yet. I said not yet, and asked if I could fuck a little longer. He replied YES! I took my young drummer back into his room, and sucked his cock until he was nice and thick and hard. We fucked doggy, and he slapped my ass like he was playing the drums to the beat of the radio. We were both laughing. It was super hot, and my wet worn pussy loved it. He then started talking trash about my husband. I love my husband, but loved the trash talking. He began to play with my ass by inserting a finger. I never let my husband get into my ass, and didn’t know how my drummer would ever get inside of me. He then asked if he could have my beautiful, curvy ass. He wanted to own my ass. At this point I was so sexually satisfied, that I felt giving him my ass was almost like a reward for his great effort. He lubed his thick cock and put it in me. He was very gentle. I was really turned on, and he was soon balls deep into my ass. I asked him to be rough with me. He grabbed my throat firmly, nibbled on my ears, slapped my ass and pulled my hair. I then squirted hard again, and then he cummed hard into my ass.
Two more hours passed. Time to do the walk of shame drive home, and let my husband have sloppy seconds and reclaim his wife!
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? He came once in my pussy and once in my ass. Incredible stamina.
I lost of how many times I came after about 10. I squirted heavily 4 of 5 times. We changed the sheets twice and ended on the bare mattress – LOL!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? This was very risky. I got tested soon after – all clear.
He wanted to hook up again, but I asked that he get tested before we hooked up again. He obliged – all clear!
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? His band/club life is so different then my life. That was a huge turn-on. His muscular and tattoed Latino stud body and huge cock, is so different from my overweight, white husband with a smaller cock – that was a huge turn on.
I love the thought of strange cock, but am very fearful of going thru with it. I found myself completely letting loose, while dancing for him at this pretty rough dance club.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? He had a few beers, and was only slightly buzzed. I had several vodkas, and was pretty buzzed and super horny!
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, I felt sad for betraying my loving husband. He reassured me that he loved me. He told me that I need the sexual outlet because of my sexual desires and skill. He reassured me that it’s just sex, and this is his gift to me. I felt much better after that.
I have since hooked up with my drummer stud about 20 times. We’ve done it after playing at clubs. We’ve done it in his truck in between music sets. We’ve done it on a boat on a lake in the middle of the night. I’ve also surprised him by bringing him lunch and then fucking all afternoon.
I have no emotional attachment, but a strong sexual attachment. He pleasures me like no one else.
No expectations – just great sex when we’re both feeling it.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only my husband, and one out-of-state girlfriend. My girlfriend loves each hook-up story. My husband gets really turned on, but I feel bad telling him how much I’ve been pleasured and how out of control I get with my drummer stud. I will not give my husband a blowjob or give him my ass. I always give my drummer stud great blowjobs, since I know how much pleasure his cock will give me. I always give my drummer stud my ass, because I know how much he’s pleasured me!
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual for both.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best. Having a husband that gives me the gift of great sex with a stud. I also get off on getting completely out of control, having multiple squirting orgasms, and taking in his thick huge cock.
Worst. The social stigma of having an open non-manogamous relationship. Having a double life that most of my friends know absolutely nothing about.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I’ve been diagnosed bi-polar, and have hypersexual moods. I have refused treatment. My husband has really researched my bi-polar behavior. He knows when I’m depressed, and helps me get out of my funks. He lets me enjoy life when in a manic mood, but keeps me grounded. He knows when I’m in a hypersexual mood, and helps me to feel ok with sending out booty calls to my stud drummer.
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