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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? South Africa
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Electrical Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I admire a beautiful woman
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My Employee

How long ago did this hookup happen? A year

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was a construction supervisor and he was the contractors engineer. I saw him for the first time in a meeting, and he said I sounded like a needed sex in my life because I was hammering the contractor (just doing my job). He was tall and dark, but not handsome (I won’t lie). His brown skin was just gorgeous. I didn’t really care for him much when I first saw him, but I began lusting for him when we worked the night shift together.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I instigated it. I was turned on by the fact that I was essentially in charge of him. He took his orders from me at work. I approved his work or rejected it, and I could make him and his staff redo it. I’d touch him gently when he’d pass me my drawings. I got a positive response. He’d shiver and tell me he is sensitive, so I became more brazen. One day while he was preparing construction check sheets for my approval in the office I asked him “wouldn’t you like to be in charge of me?” He didn’t seem to grasp the naughtiness behind the question but my intense starring made him somewhat uncomfortable. Then I just plainly asked, “how big is your dick though?” He said he could show me. The very next afternoon (after getting some sleep)… he said he liked that I knew what I wanted, and I said it would be nice if he’d be in charge for a change.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?

We started by kissing in the lounge and slowly walking to his bedroom. He was a great kisser. We undressed each other while kissing and standing. He had me pressed against the wall. I undressed him fully, but wouldn’t let him take off my panties just yet.

He had a thick long dick that instantly made me wet at the first sight of it. It was probably the second biggest dick I’ve been fucked by. I whispered in his ear “daddy your dick is so beautiful… please let me suck it.” He gently pushed me to my knees and I grabbed his dick with both my hands. Slowly, I licked the tip with my tongue, running my tongue down the shaft then coming up and sticking his whole dick in my mouth. He moaned as I moved up and down. Then, I held the shaft in my hands while gently stroking my head back and forth. Without warning, I shoved it down my throat and he let out a deep groan. When he’d had enough he lifted me to the bed, took off my panties, and grabbed a condom. The look on his face told me I was definitely about to get it.

He pushed his thick dick into my tight pussy and fucked me really hard from the back. I called him daddy and he’d smack my ass. His strokes were hard and deep. He stretched me as I’ve never been before. For round two, he fucked me while we were both standing, with him behind me pulling my arms back and calling me a slut. After he came a second time, he took the condom off and told me to suck his dick again. I loved sucking his dick. Especially when I could taste his cum. We only stopped one hour before our shift began. We had the greatest shifts after that with many sexual innuendos daringly shared around the staff. We’d fuck during the day, him taking charge of me. Then, we’d work the night shift, me being in charge of him.
It definitely was the best fuck I’ve had so far.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We continued fucking for a while. I discovered that a few of the girls he worked with had a thing for him and I absolutely loved that. I was secretly enjoying what they wished they could have. We parted on the best terms. We fucked in a few mall parking lots back in JHB but I decided I needed to get back to being exclusive with my boyfriend. I still think of him every now and then and consider messaging him. Maybe one day I’ll give in.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My cousin. We talked about it over a bottle of wine and she was surprised that I had done it, but we both enjoyed the details.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I have this wild side that I hide very well. You’d never suspect it.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I cheated on my boyfriend and didn’t feel guilty. It’s like I packed it away. He’ll probably never find out unless I tell him.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yeah. I’m terrified I’ll be giving in to sexual urges now because I’ve discovered that I can successfully pull it off without hurting anyone.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People should be safe but enjoy their sexuality freely.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting. I’ve discovered quite a lot about this encounter from all the questions asked here and things I hadn’t considered.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!