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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 52
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Palm springs
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? RN
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? first

My First

How long ago did this hookup happen? 30 Years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was attractive with a nice body, large breasts, blonde hair, and blue eyes.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had been neighbors for a while, and one day, I was outside and she came over to talk. She had a loose fitting top on, and she kept leaning over, showing most of her breasts to me, and of course, I was looking. She asked me if I was looking at her breasts, and I said that I was. She asked if I wanted to see more, and of course, I did. So, I guess she initiated the hookup, but I was definitely not afraid to take her up.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went into my apartment, and she took off her top and laid it next to me as we began to make out. I was cupping her nice firm breasts, which led to sucking on her nipples, reaching into her pants, and inserting a finger into her. She began stroking me after pulling me out of my pants. We both got naked, and she began to suck on me. After a little while of her sucking on me, I picked her up and spun her around so I could lick her pussy and clit, 69 style. I got her off first, and then, I slid into her. It was a great hook up with me telling her what I wanted, her telling me what she wanted, and both of us complying to each request. We had multiple orgasms over the evening, and we hooked up several times over the next year before I moved away.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great and was ready for repeat performances, but it took a few days before we could get together again because of our schedules. Now, years later, I would love a repeat performance.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy/convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one at the time

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Great sex with someone I knew.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t get together with her often enough afterward.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is great fun as long as both are on board with it.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great idea.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!