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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My First Blowjob

How long ago did this hookup happen? a few days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? N. is a 25 year old male. He is very slim and tall. He has got long hair and looks a bit feminine. He is definitely gay.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I have a girlfriend but I also fantasize a lot about having sex with men. For a while I have been frequenting gay dating sites in order to chat with guys and maybe find someone to try sex with.

This is how I found N. We chatted a bit online and exchanged photos. N. then suggested that I should simply come over and hang out and see what will come out of it. I agreed.

N. lives in the same city as I do so it was just a bit of a bicycle ride for me to get to his place.

I was pretty nervous when I rang N.’s doorbell. But N. was very relaxed, let me in and we just sat on his sofa and chatted on. He offered to roll a joint so we smoked together. It was a bit like suddenly becoming friends with someone. My nervousness was gone and I started to like N.

I talked a bit more about my sexual fantasies and he told me about his coming out. He had soccer on the TV, but he muted it when our conversation got more intense. I found it very strange that a gay guy is interested in soccer. He gave me inviting looks during our hot conversation, but did not make any physical advances. N. told me that he has a boyfriend but it is an open relationship so he is allowed to fuck around. N. was very open and we soon talked about sexual practices. He said that he both likes fucking and getting fucked. I told him that I am very curious about giving blowjobs and also may want to get fucked in the arse.

By that time the soccer was over and N. asked me whether he should put on a porn in an attempt to get us into the mood. I agreed, getting nervous again.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? While we were watching porn, N. got closer to me on the sofa and started to touch my legs. I was getting excited. I had a hard on because of the action on screen, and then I realised that it would happen now in real life. I returned the favour and felt his legs, took courage and went for his crotch. N. asked me whether I wanted to fulfill my fantasy about giving blowjob. I firmly said yes, breathing heavily.

N. pulled down his pants and showed me his long, skinny penis. His balls were really small. The penis was erect. I bent down and put it into my mouth. I copied the guys on the screen as I was sucking N.’s cock. It felt great, I felt very comfortable doing this. N. commented that his boyfriend had said that getting fucked by N.s penis doesn’t hurt at all because it is so skinny. I licked N.’s balls as well. N. seemed to enjoy, which made me happy. I was good at sucking dick at my first attempt!

N. said that we should get naked and get on the bed because it should not be so one sided.
We both got naked and started touching each other’s bodies. I had not thought that I would enjoy this so much. I could not hold back and kissed N.’s chest. N. asked me whether I was ok with kissing. In the spur of the moment, I said yes and he kissed my mouth. We tongue kissed. I was absolutely surprised with myself, because I had thought I would not want it. Truth is that I like it.

We gave each other mutual blowjobs. It was really fun and felt great. My girlfriend does not do blowjobs so I never had been given a blowjob in my life. It was wonderful. N. asked me whether I also wanted to try anal, but I felt I was not ready for it yet.

Other than in porn, we could not get off by blowjobs only so we started wanking until we came. I licked N.’s cum off his dick. N. said by doing so I demonstrated that I am a true cock sucker.

After sex we dressed and still talked for a little bit. N. told me that with the way we had kissed and I had given him blowjob, it probably does not make sense for me to have a girlfriend anymore. I could come back to him any time but he would leave it up to me.

We kissed goodbye and I was left by myself with my confused thoughts.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I still haven’t contacted N. yet, but i am pretty sure I will. I certainly want to have more of this and also want to try anal.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I don t know whether I have to break up with my girl friend now. I have cheated on her and N. said that it probably doesn’t make sense for me to be together with a girl.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? touching and kissing a man was a revelation to me. Giving and receiving blowjobs is great.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? that I probably have to get rid of my girlfriend now. i feel very unhappy about that part.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Seeing how easy that was, I will certainly have more gay sex in the future.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? This guy was the first truly casual sex I have had in my life.

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