What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Arizona
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Heteromantic Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Lost Count
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
My First Dick
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Young middle aged guy… 30s? Maybe older. Very friendly, handsome and confident…and an amazing dick
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Grindr… I frequently went on to let men use my mouth to cum. I had only started experimenting with this a year prior. Then I met this guy on there, he sent me a picture of his dick and I was sold. It was a big white beauty and I wanted to taste it immediately. I drove to his apartment and waited outside the gate for him. I wasn’t sure what he would be like but I was very pleasantly surprised to see how friendly and handsy (his hand was already on my ass the moment we met) he was. He told me he was married but that his wife was away at the moment and she was cool with him fucking men. I didn’t know I was going to do anything more than suck his cock at that time…He sat me down on his couch, Bob Ross was playing on the tv. We smoked and he gave me a shot of liquor, then we started making out. He blew each of his hits in my mouth and it was so sexy. I wanted to taste his cock badly.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He put on some gay porn that he had starred in when he was younger and I got on my knees and took out his long slender dick. Its cock head was quite thick and I loved licking around the engorged crown. For the first time I felt myself wanting to go further with a man. I gave him the best my cock sucking skills had to offer and he seemed to like it. This went on for a few minutes before he started feeling my ass and fingering my hole. He asked if I wanted him to fuck me and to my surprise, I said yes. He grabbed my hand and lead me to his bedroom. He laid me down ass up and ate me out, used lube, and gave me poppers before sliding that beautiful cock inside of my virgin asshole. He went very slow so it did not hurt. Once he was deep inside me he stopped to allow me to adjust. We stayed there for a moment and I reached back to feel the place where his hard lubed up cock entered my tightly filled anus. I couldn’t take it, the thought was too hot. He said, “That’s right feel my cock inside you,”. Then he asked if I had been fucked before. I said no. He started to fuck me while I felt his cock moving with my hand and he had to keep shushing my extremely loud moans of pleasure. He tried to get me to fuck him but I couldn’t so he went back to fucking my hole–still such an intense feeling at the time– and came bareback in my ass. Afterwards, I couldn’t stop looking at that beautiful first cock. I thanked him and noted that it was nice that it hadn’t hurt.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt okay but guilty about letting him cum inside me. We later had sex again and a threesome which introduced me to a new sex buddy.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Discussed STI testing history, Exchanged recent STI test results
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, To feel more desirable, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Submission / Relinquishing power, Making new friends, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I never told anyone
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Taking that good cock from an experienced partner!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Naive fear of STDs
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes! I was purely bottom for a year or so after that. Loved it in my ass.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I gotta post about that threesome. Great first experience
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Its great in moderation!
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love you.
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