What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Zambia
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? entrepreneur
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly gay/lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? fuck toy
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

My First Gay Experience

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? They were my friends and were tall and white. One was slim and the other muscular.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? They had hooked up before and I was staying at their place for the night. They began touching and sucking each other in front of me. I asked if I could watch and they said they would love it if I did. When they started anal fucking, I became horny, I asked them if they would like to touch and suck my cock. They took my pants off and played with my cock telling me that they always wanted to. They sucked my cock and I sucked theirs. I loved sucking their cocks.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Dripping precum I got naked and asked them if they would like to fuck me anally. They began fingering my tight little ass and I liked it. Horny and feeling naughty I got on my hands and knees and one of the guys slid his cock into my ass slowly making me moan. He asked if it hurt and I said it did but I liked the sensation. Slowly thrusting I moaned in short gasps. He pulled out and the other guy asked me if I wanted more. Feeling like a dirty slut I asked him to please fuck me. He started slow and got faster after a while, I moaned out “Yeah!” with every thrust. Eventually he came in my ass and I loved it. My ass hole was gaped and sore but I liked that and asked the other guy to fuck me until he came.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I get horny whenever I see either guy, we still have sex but not as a group all the time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend who became a sexual partner. he was thrilled and always wanted to fuck a guy

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Discovering the joy of anal and men’s cocks.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not doing it sooner

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, it showed me what I liked sexually.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It led to discovering the joy of cocks and anal pleasure.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I saw touching and oral sex as a casual experience

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It led me to understand that sex can be seen as a casual act of stress relief.

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