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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 49
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Sweden
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Consultant
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My First MFF Threesome

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3.5 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met these two Spanish women for the first (and only) time in a swingers club in Spain. They were standing at the bar talking to the owner. I had already had my fun for the night in that club, so I had no intention of hitting on them whatsoever. I felt no attraction to either of them at the time, but if I hadn’t already had some action, I definitely would have been interested in one of them, MJ. She was 49 at the time. She had a pretty face, an intense and confident look in her pretty brown eyes, and a slim, toned, almost muscular body with small breasts and a proportional nice ass and was a bit suntanned. Her friend, A, was 47-48, and her body was average, not at all tanned, nor did she go to the gym, and her breast was size B (or maybe C), and she wasn’t very talkative. They were colleagues and were visiting just for one night from another city a few hours away.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I overheard their interesting conversation with the club owner at the bar and joined in without any intention at all of getting it on with them. First, I felt that MJ was looking at me skeptically, and A just had a quick glance at me, so I assured them early on that I was already “satisfied” for that night, and they seemed to relax a bit. The club was about to close, so we left together and they offered to give me a ride in their car, even though they had been drinking because my hotel was on the way to their hotel. I went along and we chatted during the 5-minute ride. Before leaving the car. I thanked them for the ride and suddenly saw the opportunity to lean in for a kiss with MJ who was at the wheel. We had a short but hot kiss, then I started walking towards the entrance of my hotel. Before entering I turned around and saw them still sitting in their car about 30 meters away. That was when I first realized that they wanted an adventure with me. So I went back to the car with my recently gained confidence boost and a smirk on my face. I asked them if they felt unsafe and I offered to follow them to their hotel so nothing would happen to them. They suddenly both looked a bit nervous, looking at each other. We didn’t talk much and didn’t do more touching before arriving at their hotel room. It must’ve been about 4:30 am. I think all of us felt a bit awkward. They both went into the bathroom together for about 10 minutes. I went in after them and took a shower. When I came out they were packing their bags because they were checking out later that morning/day, so I just laid down in their big kingsize bed, still with my towel wrapped around my waist. At about 5:00 am they were finally finished packing and came to bed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We didn’t talk much as we were all a bit nervous since it was all of our first threesomes. They still had their underwear, knickers, and bras on when they laid down beside me, one on each side. They slowly started to touch me, stroking my chest and abdomen. I was stroking their hair, their backs, trying to caress them both at the same time, and it just occurred to me that I would have to try to give both of them the same amount of attention. There I was, in the situation I had dreamt of since I was a little boy. It felt my cock slowly rising as they were approaching. MJ grabbed it and started stroking it slowly, up and down. After a little while, she stopped and took her bra off so I could see her small firm breasts and her erect nipples just before she started sucking me. A was fondling my balls with one hand, and gently stroking my chest and nipples. I was squeezing MJ’s left tit with one hand, and A’s back with the other.
Then I suddenly had another realization that they weren’t a bi-sexual couple that wanted to make out with each other, they were working together, but were not at all bi-curious. Not at all like all the threesome porn videos I’d watched. I felt even more obligated to try to entertain them both, so they wouldn’t feel left out. There I was, with my cock in MJ’s mouth, and two horny Spanish women by my side. I could feel MJ’s teeth, and to be honest, she wasn’t an expert at sucking cock. I gently showed MJ that she could stop blowing me, and showed A that I wanted her sweet lips around my cock. As she started to suck my dick, I immediately realized she was better at this and my cock became rock hard again. I told MJ to take her panties off. She was trying to help A out by licking all around my dick, squeezing my balls gently, while positioning her body so that I could start fingering her tight and wet pussy, first with only one finger, then two. I could feel her contractions as she got more and more excited. I was squeezing A’s right breast, and she stopped sucking me to take off her bra, before continuing. MJ was getting ready to be fucked, she was responding well and seemed to like my fingers massaging her clitoris and g-spot.
I guided MJ on all fours to do her from behind. A didn’t join but laid down on the bed beside us and watched me put on a condom and then slowly enter MJ’s soaking wet pussy. I started pumping her from behind, and she was responding so well. I looked down at A who was touching herself inside her panties, and I thought that I have to give her some attention soon. I pumped MJ’s pussy for a little while, grabbing her round, tight, firm ass. I’m not very big, only about average, so I got all the way in without feeling her cervix with the tip of my cock. I felt her butt cheeks against my body when pumping. She was fingering herself while I was fucking her and moaning pretty loud. Suddenly I felt her already tight pussy contract even more around my dick, and I slowed down enjoying watching/hearing/feeling her having an orgasm around my hard cock.
Now it was A’s turn. I crawled over to A’s side of the bed and took off her panties, she didn’t seem concerned about me not changing the condom. She was eager to have me, so she laid down on her back, wanting me in missionary position. I started pumping, watching her firm breasts bouncing to my pace. Normally I get very excited by that, but somehow I felt that I wasn’t very hard anymore. Maybe because her body was more than average size, maybe even a little bit chubby. That, in combination with being tired, exhausted after my previous sessions earlier that night… Her pussy was totally clean shaven, not as tight as MJ’s, but still not bad, I also got my the head of my cock stimulated by bumping into her cervix on every pump. I started rubbing her clitoris, thinking that I’d prefer to make her cum since I felt I wouldn’t be able at that moment. I soon pulled out and went down on her. I licked her up and down, swirled my tongue around her clitoris, I fingered her with two fingers, putting soft pressure when swiping my fingers outwards on her g-spot. She leaned back and seemed to really enjoy it.
After about ten minutes eating her pussy, she had stopped moaning and I felt that she was showing me that she wouldn’t cum, so I stopped, and she looked almost guilty for not cumming after I tried so hard. We just looked at each other and smiled, and we both were tired and sleepy so we decided to get in between the sheets. I noticed earlier that MJ slipped in between the sheets on the other end of the bed. She fell asleep while I was fucking A. I didn’t want to bother her, but I think my mind was so excited about having had my first ever threesome, although it wasn’t at all as I imagined. After a while A turned around, facing the wall. I casually turned towards her, spooning her gently with a sheet in between, to avoid more sweat. After what may have been thirty-forty minutes, she was moving and obviously still awake, just like me. I then started caressing her still from outside the sheet. She responded, first slowly, then more eagerly to my hands touching her gently, then moving on to squeezing her tits, then revealing her hard nipples, and she turned around so I could suck them. I was getting hard again, which she immediately noted, and started to stroke my cock gently through the thin sheet. I reached for a new condom that I left on the bedside table, put it on, and then she sat on top of me, and boy was she wet. I slid right in and she started riding me. She was a bit more savage than before. Her friend was sleeping and I guess she had been a little shy having sex and letting go in front of her work colleague. I took her from behind a little while after that. Then missionary again, until she finally came. I wasn’t far away, so I pumped for a few more minutes until I blew my load inside her. Inside the condom.
After that, we had a nice chat, but she didn’t want to reveal too many details about herself or her friend. Then we decided to sleep for a while. I have no idea what time it was, and I didn’t care. I knew MJ had set an alarm before she went to bed.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I didn’t sleep much, maybe half an hour or so. We got up and they checked out of the hotel. We decided that we’d have breakfast together before they headed off home. While walking towards the restaurant I grabbed A’s hand and she responded well to that. I think she really liked me. Then I felt it was a bit unfair so I thought I’d grab MJ by the hand as well, and she approved. There we were. Me, holding hands in the street, with two Spanish women, the morning after our first threesome. That felt very nice for me in that moment. I had satisfied two women, and they both still seemed to like hanging out with me even the day after. Wow. We sat down at a table outside, there weren’t many guests at that time, so we started talking about what had happened, and we all agreed that it had been a great experience and that we would probably never see each other again. They didn’t want to tell me where they were working, but it had something to do with politics. They had about a one and a half hour drive to get back home. So we finished eating, said goodbye, and I was kissing both of them, right there in the street. And so they left. I was a bit sad, but at the same time, I was happy to have met them, and everything that led up to that moment.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more confident, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I mentioned it for a (female) friend when I got back home. She was cool with it. She had tried threesomes too, but MMF.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? My self-esteem had been a little low before this, I felt a lot more confident after this, for a long time.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Uh, no worst thing. Maybe that we didn’t have more time to try it again. I think they’d wanted it too.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, this was definitely my most memorable hookup/casual sex ever, and my only MFF so far. I’ve done some MMF in swinger clubs, but those don’t even come near this experience.
If I’d ever get into that position again, I think I will feel more relaxed, more confident, and I will be able to have better control of the situation. I now am a man who has been able to fuck and satisfy two women at the same time. That has given me more confidence in general with women as well.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I didn’t have much casual sex before I got married, just a couple of times. After getting divorced my self-esteem was down to zero. At that time I needed sex so badly, but since I had practically no experience from before, and no self-esteem, it was a bit tough to start having casual sex. After some practice, I got the hang of it, although I think it should be more accepted in society. It’s still very tabu in some social contexts. I wish I lived in some other country where it’s not. Sweden is supposed to be so open minded, and especially Swedish women are known world wide for their liberal view of casual sex. Let me tell you that they are not. At least not publicly. I also learned a lot about the Swedish hypocrisy, not only when it comes to casual sex, but that’s another subject.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s a really great project, I have enjoyed many stories here. I hope someone will find some joy in my story as well. If not, it was great to share it anyway.

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