What’s your gender? Female
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? America
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 34
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4

My First MMF

How long ago did this hookup happen? This Thursday

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Well one of them is my bf. He’s 5’10, pretty slim, above average looks. I love him to death, obviously. D., the other guy, though is taller and more built, and bigger down there, than my bf. My bf is pretty introverted, hasn’t had a lot of experiences like this. On the other hand, D.’s been with, apparently, over 100 girls and has had threesomes before. He’s been my bfs friend for a long time and I’ve kind of known him for a long time too – we hooked up once way back when I was 15.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? D. left for university when I was 16 and he just recently finished and had his graduation ceremony last week. My bf told me that he’s coming back, so I contacted him on Facebook. At one point I explained that I am in an open relationship (just to let him know we could hook up, if he wanted.) He said that’s cool, but he can’t really fuck me since he’s a good friend of my bfs. I understood that, but when he came over on Monday I wanted him so badly I ended up bringing up a threesome with my bf later that day. I’ve always, always wanted an MMF and my bf knows that, and I said we’d be comfortable doing it with D. more than some stranger. My bf and D. agreed and we set the date and stuff.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Anyway, the day came last Thursday, and D. came over to our place. He and my bf put on a show they watch these days and I sat in the sofa between them waiting for it to end. But it was a LONG show, and I was horny as fuck. I started to touch myself and cuddled up against my bf and tried to get him to do so as well. But he was pretty invested in the show and I was mostly ignored, so I cuddled next to D. instead and started kissing his neck. Surprisingly, he didn’t hesitate and all, and his hand immediately moved to take my hand’s place in rubbing my clit. In fact, he even went under my shorts and panties. I returned the favour and started to rub his dick. Our hands together got me to come the first time right there, then I let them finish their stupid show.

Upstairs in our room, I immediately stripped naked and went to sit on the bed, where I started kissing my bf. D. then came with the lube and made me go on my knees as he applied it to be butt. We had discussed double penetration earlier, so D. had remembered to bring lube and I had already made the preparations on my end. So D. began to apply it and finger my butt and pussy while I pushed my bfs pants down and gave him a BJ. D. with his fingers and mouth was able to get me to come a second time, and after 5-10 minutes of lubing up he entered my ass. As always with anal, it was uncomfortable taking him all in at first, but D. is a pro and he eased in and helped me into a rhythm going back against him. Meanwhile, I was giving a BJ to my bf but I was noticing he wasn’t really fully erect, and when D. told him that we should DP now, he instead backed out. In fact, he said he wasn’t really feeling it. It was all really confusing, and a bit of a downer, but in any case, D. resumed and after 10 minutes or so he came into me the first time that night.

Afterwards, we tried to convince my bf again but he just went downstairs. D. and I fucked again, this time he started off in my pussy but came in my ass again and afterwards we were way too tired and ended up just sleeping there.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? In the morning I gave D. a bj and then came downstairs to find my bf sleeping on the sofa, which made me really guilty and I ended up asking D. to leave. He and I are still on good terms though, and we are planning another threesome next weekend with D. and a friend of his who I don’t know where we can actually do DP.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Everyone else was/is doing it, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My close friends. Most of them have had an MFM, but they were all still impressed and happy for me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The time both David and my bf were in me at the same time was an absolutely amazing experience and really a dream come true. It didn’t last long enough

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wasn’t able to do DP, and my bf’s reaction to the threesome afterwards.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yeah! I never thought I would ever actually do something like this, but being more free and open minded about sex has allowed me to experience and enjoy my first, and DEFINITELY NOT my last, MMF.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? So I’ve been for and against casual sex but this last year I’ve really embraced the lifestyle. I mean, I’ve been through 20 guys in the last year and I’m glad I was open minded about it because a lot of these experiences were actually great and I’m glad I went with it.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Its great! Keep it up.

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