Current location: Australia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Relationship status: married
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
My First Old Man
How long ago did this hookup happen? 18 years ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? fuck buddies
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Jörg was a very fit German man, a marathon runner. He was 43 years old back then. He was about 175cm tall, had a beard and full hair, and a bit of a hairy chest.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was about 24 years old when I started to explore the homosexual side of me. I started this pursuits by going to gay saunas and having sex in the cabinets and dark rooms. I was a skinny young man with long brown hair, people may have seen me as a twink.
I felt that was not good enough and i wanted to have sex with someone in a different environment, on a more regular basis, maybe even having a boyfriend. So I frequented gay bars.
I was hanging out in a gay bar at a table by myself when Jörg approached me and sat next to me. We started to chat casually. Before I left, he invited me to a concert that would happen at the same place next week.
The next week, I was happy to meet him again at that bar. I wasn t really interested in the music. After the concert, we started something of a pub crawl because I had told him that I wasn t all that familiar with the different gay spots of our city. I guess we both got a bit drunk that night.It was way past midnight when he asked whether I was interested in going to his place so he could show me some of his art work.
I was very happy about that suggestion, because I had not been able to figure out a way of how to approach him with a sexual offer. Now it was clearly there, and I wanted to get on with it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Jörg took me to his apartment and showed me his paintings. We had another glass of wine and I realized that I was pretty drunk. Then he wanted to show me the other rooms of the apartment and took me, of course, to his bed room. Standing behind me, he started to touch my chest and hug me. I let him do it and turned around. He kissed me. I usually don t like to be kissed by a man but I let him so that we could have sex. It was fine.
I undressed for him so that I would stand naked in front of him. While I was doing it, he got on his bed and also started to get rid of his clothes. I joined him on the bed and started to kiss and caress his chest, tenderly biting into his nipples and licking over his chest hair. My mouth wandered down to his penis and I started to lick it. His penis was stiff. I was happy that I was obviously arousing him. I put his penis into my mouth and started to play, kissing, blowing, sucking and licking.
Jörg went on to fondle my penis, and caressing my body. He was particularly interested in my arse, which was firm because I was a cyclist. He did this wonderful thing where he would put both of our penises in his hand and masturbated both of us at the same time. He was the only man who has ever done that with me. It is a great practice. Try it out!
The next part is probably the best sexual experience in my life. I was really drunk. He got up, and I laid down on my back. He went to a drawer and pulled out lube. Without uttering a word, he went back on the bed. he poured lube on his finger and stuck it into my arsehole. He did not ask me for consent or whether I like receiving anal. He just did it.This was a fantasy come true. I did not dare breathe and did not say anything. I had not asked him for anal because I wanted exactly that, him entering me without asking for permission. On this occasion, he did not even use a condom.
He also put lube on his dick and then climbed on me missionary style. He got his penis into me easily. It hurt, but I let him do it. My pain threshhold was low due to all the alcohol, anyway. He fucked me missionary and I let it happen. it was wonderful. When he was done, Jörg pulled out and sprayed his sperm all over me. Some of it went into my long brown hair. That is how far his sperm shot! I started to masturbate immediately. He watched me masturbate until I came. We then went to sleep.
The next day, I wanted to show Jörg that I had no problem with the anal that had happened without spoken consent. Quite the contrary! So I woke him up with a lovely blowjob. He woke up and moaned with pleasure. He grabbed my head and pulled it towards him. He confidently fucked my mouth for a bit until he came into my mouth. I spat it out and masturbated in front of him. This was very pleasurable.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Both of us did.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None. It had not been safe. Later on, he would use a condom to fuck me. He explained to me that he would not give me blowjobs because he knew that I swallowed sperm.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to explore my homosexual feelings.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We were both pretty drunk. I would have done the same thing sober.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We exchanged telephone numbers and met many times for sex. I did not only have sex with him, we also went running together and attended art and music events.
At first, I had mixed feelings that I had hooked up with a guy so much older than me. But then I realized that I liked him and the way he had sex with me. So I was ok with it. Back then I did not realize that I was more attracted to older guys.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my friends about it. They just accepted it that I hung out with an older gay guy.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? The anal was not that consensual but that was what I wanted in a kinky way. I am sure Jörg would have stopped if I had asked him. It was just weird, but at the same time, wonderful, that he did not ask me for consent.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all. It was one of my best sex experiences in my life, including sex with women.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was when he fucked me without consent and sprayed his sperm over my body.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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