by Irene

Gender: Female
Age: 43
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Norway
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Office-manager
Relationship status: Open relationship
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? I’m quite open for new things.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 172
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My First Orgasm

How long ago did this hookup happen? 24 years ago.

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck-buddies.

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? They were a couple, my teacher and her hubby. She was 33 and he 47. I knew she was bisexual and i was curious, and we met after a christmas party. I never thought she would be interested in me, a 19 yo girl.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met after a christmas party, they were on their way home and I was sad because my boyfriend had broken up with me. They invited me home for some wine.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We talked for over 1 hour. When I got back from the toilet she was blowing her husband, she said I could try if I wanted to. I was horny that night so I just said yes, and before I knew it I was sucking him and she was licking my pussy. 
It was so nice and while he was dogging me she was using her tongue at my labia, and when he came inside me I had my first orgasm ever. It was the best ever I was screaming like crazy. They are within top 3 of my lovers ever. We continued to have sex for like 7 months.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? At that time I rarely used anything, but I never had an STI. I’m much more careful now.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? To get laid, and to try out sex with a girl.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had 5 beers through the night.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? As I said we continued to meet for a while, I had one of my best times ever during that period. I moved away but I still remember it like a nice thing.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only to my best friend, she just said i should go for it as long as I could, cool friend.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? For me it was yes, for them maybe, I hope so.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was to achieve my first orgasm, it made me more relaxed about having sex in general.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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