by Anita

Gender: Female
Age: 23
Race/ethnicity: Yellow
Current location: China
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Teacher
Relationship status: Single
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? None before
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

My First Time

How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck-buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is not very tall, but quite good looking. Not too fat or too thin. He has been my student since last semester. I am a master student, he, a bachelor student. So, we have known each other for almost half a year. In the beginning, I just treated him as all my other students. We started to text each other three months ago. Things got changed a little bit from last month. He told me that he liked me. Of course this was the first hook-up. I don’t have feeling for him. But he is cute and he knows what to say to make me happy. So, we flirted a little bit for like a week.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? First, we started to flirt last week. We sometimes had a walk on campus in the night. Yesterday, he asked me to have dinner with him. After dinner, he told me that he wanted to spend a night with me. I hesitated! I was a virgin! I was not sure if it was okay to say yes. I was afraid that something wrong would happen (I am from a quite conservative environment. Many men care about their wives virginity.) . By the way, I am already 23. Pretty old right?

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After struggling with myself for a while, I said yes. I would go out and spend a night with him. Then, he booked a hotel room. I even made up a lie to avoid my roommates’ doubt. We went to the hotel together. I was quite nervous when I went into that room.
Then, he went to the bathroom to take a shower. When he came out, he lied on my legs and started talking to me. After some talking, he started to kiss me. At that time, I didn’t have any feeling. My heart beat at the same speed as usual.
It was quite late. We just took off our clothes and got into the bed. I didn’t take off my underwear. He asked me if I felt uncomfortable with my bra. So, he helped me take them off.
Then, he started kissing me again. And this time, he got on top of me, started kissing, biting and touching my neck and my breasts. I responded by hugging him and kissing him back. He got an erection at that time. But he said he couldn’t do anything bad to me. We still had our pants on. He just used his hard dick to poke my pussy.
I began to get wet. I asked him to take off his shirt and fuck me. I wouldn’t mind that we don’t love each other. I wouldn’t ask him to take responsibilities. I called him bad boy. He called me a slut. And I took off his pants and asked him to put on a condom. He took one out and I helped him put it on. Then, he took off my panty and spread my legs. He wanted to get his dick inside of my vagina. But it was my first time. I was too tight to get in. So, he used one of his fingers inside of me, outside and inside. When I gradually get used to it, He thrust his dick in my vagina. I didn’t know that it could hurt so much. He stopped a few seconds and started to move, inside, outside and sometimes very deep inside. My vagina, my legs and my butt hurt so much. But he kept on and on till he came. It was like a century to me.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? No, I was too hurt to have an orgasm. But he did. When he got out and went to the bathroom to take off the condom, he found out that I bled. There was a lot of blood on the bed.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We obviously used condoms. I don’t want to get pregnant. This is my first time, I am all clean. I know he had sex before with his ex-girlfriend, but I think he is clean.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It was just the right time. I think I should have sex now. I have needs but I just masturbated for myself. So I wanted to try some real sex. He is quite a good partner to do it.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No,we didn’t drink any alcohol.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup he hugged me and we talked for a while before we fell asleep. I did a hand job and a blow job for him in the morning. Maybe we will keep on this kind of fucking-without-loving relationship. I am not sure.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? None, I felt it embarrassing to talk about it with anyone else.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was a wanted experience for both of us.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, I don’t regret this hookup.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? BEST: We hugged tightly and he caressed me a lot. We felt very close to each other. WORST: It hurt so much!

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? It’s just maybe I can enjoy it at the second or third time.

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