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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? South America
What country and/or city do you live in? Argentina
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I don’t know how to describe me… yet.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My First Time

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s a very hot guy. He looks so nervous the day that we meet.
We never hooked up before, because I was not sure about have or not sex with him.
The funny thing, it’s that we meet on Twitter. Yes, dangerous.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We planned just to go to the stadium. I love soccer, and incredibly he is a fan of the same team than me. This meeting was not planned at all. I was virgin, so I wasn’t sure of anything.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well, my English it’s not so good because I’m still learning but here I go.

We had vaginal sex, of course, and oral. In my group of friends, sex is a taboo, so all the experiences involved pain. But that was not my case, at all. My partner was so gentle. So, I don’t feel any regret. Even in that time or after. And it ended in the back-seat of the car!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt a little of pain, but worth it. I honestly don’t know how it’s gonna end this thing between us, but I feel good (very good) when we are together.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more confident

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? With two friends. A girl and a boy.
They give me all the support before and after.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I think that the connection we have before, during the sex, and after.
That’s why I said yes to him.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing. He makes the experience great.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Not at all.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Well, now I think that is great. We have casual sex like two or three times in a month

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a great page, it was some pleasant to share experiences. And read them, of course.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!