by Coconana

Gender: Female
Age: 29
Race/ethnicity: Chinese
Current location: Malaysia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Professional
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Buddhist
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

My Fuck-Buddy From Online Game

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2011-2013

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was playing the online game Maplestory back in 2007-2009. I exchanged numbers with good friends that I knew in the game. Years later after we all stopped playing games, this guy suddenly texted my phone number and said he still remembered me. We met for a drink and talked about the past, how we played the games etc. He’s a little bit taller than me, very skinny, with a nice warm smile. I felt quite comfortable talking to him. Then when he sent me home, he initiated a kiss, and it was a very hot kiss. He suggested that we should try having sex since the kiss was so good. At that time, I had just broken up and didn’t want a relationship and he was the same. So we agreed to try sex out, just like it is a sports event. So we became fuck buddies and we meet just for oral sex or real sex whenever and wherever. However we slowed down and stopped after we got busy with our career. Sometimes I wished we were not only fuck buddies, but I know, the feeling between us is just for sex only. We tried being supportive friends for each other, but we didn’t put each other as priority in our lives. So, yea. In the end we stopped contact.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? First kiss was in his car. First sex was at a hotel room. He suggested it, and I agreed to it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had a long foreplay before he goes into me. The first sex was quite awkward as he was a little nervous. But the sex was good. I loved that we cuddled after sex. He’s just so sweet and loving.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes of course.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He uses condom

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Pleasure. Desire. Probably I loved him a little. Probably infatuated with his gentle moves.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? none

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After first sex, I wanted more sex from him. I liked him more than sex. But he didn’t have more than sex, or probably he never said anything about love relationship between us. So I let it go . We both got busy with career and stopped contacting each other.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? None

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No regrets. It was a nice experience.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing – the whole experience makes me feel very good about myself. We don’t need to worry about how we look in front of the FB because we loved each other’s body. Worst thing- When I realized I love him, but we couldn’t do more than sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? It was good. But I don’t think I can find another FB again because my cultural thinking tells me it’s wrong, and my desire says it’s ok. But as I grow older, I think it’s time to find a real partner for marriage and start a family. Can’t hang around with casual sex anymore.

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