What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I’m mostly attracted to women but like black/brown dudes.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
My Gay Encounter
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ll keep his name anonymous. I met him through a gay dating app and I had known him for just a week. I had never hooked up before and this was my first time. I met him in a hotel nearby and I didn’t really know him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This was a random gay dating app. He texted me and we had a conversation for over a period of 5 days until we decided to have a meetup. Obviously, we had made it clear that it was going to be a one night stand so we both agreed to it. We planned the meet for a day. We talked about what hotel to meet in and when we should meet. I planned to meet him at noon and was going to leave by 8 in the evening.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We met on the day as planned. He was already in the hotel room. I came in as a visitor and since I was a man, nobody had the slightest of the idea. Eventually the plans had changed to going to his own place. So we went and he didn’t waste any time. As soon as he shut the door, he came behind me, grabbed me by my ass and put me down in a doggy style position. He pulled down my pants and slapped my ass a few times. By this time I was already in the mood. We got naked and he asked me if I had ever had sex with a man. I replied no and said that this was my first bottom. He asked me why I wanted to be bottom. I replied that I just find it way too hot and that I had always wanted to be a bottom. He was totally prepared with lube and stuff. He first came on top of me and we kissed for a while until I said I want to suck his dick and I got down. The oral went for a couple of minutes, he deepthroated me and got his dick completely wet. He then asked me was I ready for anal. He said that if I wasn’t ready we could just go on with the oral, but I said that I want to try it because I’ll have to someday. He lubed my ass up and told me to relax and lay down. He slowly started with a finger, gradually increasing the depth and also increasing the number of fingers. This went on for half an hour until I was confident that I could take in a dick. Then finally he lubed his dick up and lubed my ass and slowly put his dick in me. For 10 minutes he went slowly, but soon I was good with it and he increased the pace. Soon he was giving me full deep thrusts. I told him that I wanted to be fucked hard and that he could do whatever he wanted. He pulled my hands back, grabbed me and fucked me hard in the doggy position for a nice 30 minutes. Then he wanted to cum and I took all the cum in my mouth. I had already leaked my cum while I was being fucked. It felt really good. We made out the rest of the time. He was very good to me. Then we talked about why I wanted to this and he told me that he’ll keep it a secret between me and him forever. He also said that until he gets married I can ask for this any day I would like. We had a lot of time so I insisted on going for another round. He grabbed my hair and said, “This time it’s my way.” He backed me up against a wall and put me down on my knees. Then he fucked my mouth for 15 minutes straight. He even pushed his balls into my mouth and made me drool. Then he said, “Let’s do something daring.” He took me out of his house while we were naked into his corridor. He had a room opposite where his friend used to live and he started to fuck me in the doggy position while pulling my hands back. He knocked on his friend’s door and literally fucked me in front of his friend. Then he took me inside and continued. I asked him if what his friend saw would be a problem. He told me that he has had sex with his friend multiple times so it was chill. We continued until 6:30 in the evening and then again went on kissing for an hour. I left exactly at 8.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day I it obviously felt a little different and I had been thinking about him for the rest of the night. I deleted my gay dating app and added him on my social media. He asked me why I did that, and I said, “If I ever feel getting banged again I’ll call you.” It’s been two long months and I’ve already been with him thrice after our first meeting. He’s now what every person wants but can’t have. A fuck buddy. We have tried a lot of things in sex. Whenever I want to be fucked I just call him and we meet and fuck. It’s nothing emotional but more like a friends with benefits scene. I hope I’ll have this for quite sometime.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one except the guy himself.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The experience.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? A little pain in the ass. Lol
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? A lot
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was with both of the person’s consent.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think sex is still a very private thing. Everyone does it but it’s a private matter. What I think is that if the two people are trust worthy and don’t have any problem then who cares. Just be sure nobody finds out because it’s still considered a taboo kinda thing.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A great way to express and share your story. And a way to learn from others story.
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