What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 52
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States Northern Utah
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Training
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Horny, fulfilling,
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My Hairdresser

How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? “Mary” is 5″5′ tall, blonde, shoulder length hair, bluish eyes, long body, nice firm boobs, not fat, not thin, perhaps curving and sexy curves is best description. Button nose that is cute and radiant smile. Wonderful sense of humor and intelligent, able to hold her own. I met her 11 years ago when she bMary ecame my hairdresser. We see each other at least once a month in her shop. We have always had a fun, joking and laughing relationship that is a real friendship. We have for the last 5 years openly flirted in front of my wife though we never have acted.

I have wanted Mary for the last 7 years, to kiss her, undress her, make out with her, suck her boobs and tits, to feel her pussy, and give her oral sex by licking her pussy lips, and then build her up and slowly lick her clit until she has an orgasm. Then to have her get on top and work my dick into her. I have flirted to that end, and we openly like each other, but Mary wasn’t ready to cross the line with her husband and I respected that.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I missed our regular hair appointment and went in mid week on a Friday so Mary could cut my hair. She was in the shop alone when I entered. I told her ,”Hi gorgeous” and she asked if I was serious. “Bad day” I asked? “Bad week” she replied. I looked at her and said “Mary, no doubt you are one of the most gorgeous women I know physically and intellectually.” “Aw thanks,” she replied as she winked at me.

Mary and I then started talking and joking as we always do, I telling her stories about work life and other crap that is funny and she cut my hair. She finished and asked “Gel?” “Yep” was my reply and she styled my hair. Then she did something I had only dreamed of. She removed my hair gown and laid it in the chair next to mine, and said “I want some gel too.” She came to me and took my face in her hands and kissed me, her tongue eagerly seeking my mouth and tongue. So no planning, this was just something that happen and I was in shock! Good shock, but in shock!

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Mary and I made out for a good 10 minutes and then she got up, walked over to the door, locked it, put the sign in the window to closed, shut the blinds, shut off the lights, and Mary undressed in front of me. Off came her shirt, then her bra and her hard nipples were quite visible. Next she removed her pants and her panties, and their I saw a thin trail of trimmed pubic hair leading down to her pussy. “Now you” Mary said. I stood up, removed my shirt, my tee shirt and then undid my belt, and removed my pants and then my boxers. My dick was hard and waiting.

Mary walked to me, took my hand and led me to the sofa. We pulled out the hyda-bed in it, and it was already made. We sat on the bed, and again started making out. Her cool hand with her velvet touch went up my leg and her fingers starting massaging my balls gently. My hands went for her boobs, and I began to rub the side of them. For the next fifteen minutes Mary alternated between massaging my balls and stroking my hard and erect dick. I played with her boobs, rubbing and massaging their sides as her tits got super hard and big.

I next moved my mouth down to her tits and began to suck them and Mary let out a low moan. She was enjoying it. “I like to take my time, okay” I told Mary. “Go slow, your it tonight.” Mary replied. I then slowly moved from sucking her tits and kissed her torso down to her naval, and then following her thin strip of pubic hair, I worked my way down to her pussy.

Arriving there, I parted her legs so I could get my head into her pussy area and using my tongue with no pressure, I began to lick/rub her pussy libs. Up the left side, down the right and vice versa. For fifteen minutes I worked this, sometimes sticking my tongue inside her pussy which made Mary arch a little and moan. I now worked up to her clit, which was hard, and gently, so gently I began to move my tongue around it. Slowly I began to add pressure and I felt her clit grow hard, to enlarge. Mary began to moan and move her hips in a small, circular motion as I continued. Faster she moved, and I matched her. “Hell yes, don’t stop, don’t stop, GO!” Mary screamed and after a few more licks with my tongue, Mary shouted “Oh, Oh, OH, OH YES!” as she raised her hips and ejaculated onto my neck and chest.

I know moved Mary so she could be on top of me, and she eagerly got up on me. Using her vagina and vaginal muscles she guided my horny dick inside her vagina. It felt so warm and moist and wonderful. I entered her and drove my dick completely inside her to her pelvis opening. We stopped and Mary pulled and pushed my dick inside of her, never letting it out. “Surprised?” Mary asked. “Hell yes” I replied, “But most welcomed.” “What changed I asked?” “Nothing. I’ve wanted to fuck you for a long time but had to get over me being married, you being married.” “Okay,” as I now gently began to move my dick in her vagina.

Mary now leaned forward and began to kiss me as she drove my dick slowly in and out of her vagina. Her pace increased the longer we made love and after 10 minutes, she went wild, thrusting my dick in and out so rapidly it must have been a flash. I could feel my dick grow and swell inside her pussy as my cum began to rise. Mary was pounding me and I noticed her chest was a pinkish red, and that coloring moved into her neck and then her cheeks and face. “Fuck YEAH!” Mary said. “Go” I replied and Mary went faster, lost in her coming ecstasy of pure pleasure. I begin to thrust on my own and I felt Mary’s vagina quiver in pleasure as she screamed “Hell yeah! Hell Yeah!” I couldn’t hold back and since we did not use a condom I shot my load in six shots deep inside of her. Mary collapsed on me and kissed me over and over, and then looking at me while laying on top of me said “I am in love with you Jake and I love how you fuck.” “I love you too,” I replied and she said, “Yeah, we are two puzzle pieces that just fit perfectly.” We then kissed and after about 20 minutes of talking and kissing, starting it all up again. This time she gave me a blow job, I used my finger on her though I also used my tongue again on her pussy and we made love again this time, and one more after (which lasted the longest as I went longer each time I came). We spent a good hour after the third round of sex, just talking and deciding what this hook up meant. We then dressed and returned to our families with me committing to come by her house Monday and Tuesday when her son was at pre-school. Mary would arrange for a sitter and we would spend the day making love again.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We are meeting on Monday and on Tuesday to make love, and follow up. We are not leaving our spouses but we LOVE the sex we have together and will keep doing it. From there we’ll see but we have committed to a year of sex together before deciding anything.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, I was feeling lonely

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only to each other. No one else.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We both admitted our deep sexual and intellectual attraction for each other. Finding out we have awesome sex together. Now we don’t have to pretend and can just go for it.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The hyda bed in the couch was a little uncomfortable but during sex who notices!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Always been faithful but man, with the right woman that I have a connection emotionally and physically with over time, I am willing to hook up. I would prefer it to be a long-term commitment as that is the person I am. However, I would take Mary just one night if that is all I could have. Luckily we’ll have more.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Saw Mary about 2 hours ago, she couldn’t wait. Went to her house, husband at work, son with grandpa for the day and we did it again. Such passion. Laying her filling this out as Mary plays with my balls and dick. Yeah, good way to fill out it.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? We as a society are afraid of sex and in truth, I am not for free sex all over. However, even if married, if I have someone in my life that is horny for me and I for her, and we hook up, as long as it is just casual no problem and I think there is nothing wrong with having your spouse or significant other, and a friend on the side. It allows for a release so you don’t leave a marriage over sex.

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