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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? KS
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? retail sales
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My Lab Partner’s Older Brother

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Mike is tan, muscular, huge arms with tattoos, bald but sexy, light blue eyes, early 30s, and TJ’s older brother.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My first semester of junior college I met TJ in Chemistry. We were lab partners and I helped him with his reports. TJ is 23, brown hair, patchy beard & slightly heavy. TJ’s parents were taking a trip in their RV for a few months and he asked if I’d like to hang out Saturday. I showed up and his older brother Mike answered the door. He told me TJ went to a friend’s house to game but suggested that I come in since I was already there until TJ came home. Normally, I would have left but he kept checking me out so I went inside. We went to the back patio and talked for a few minutes. He lives in ND, works in the oil field and flew into town to pick up his truck and would be driving back the next day. He told me I was way too sexy for TJ which got me feeling horny. He tossed a few more comments out before he got bold, held my hand, and asked, “Would you like to fuck?” I loved the direct approach. I knew this would be a slutty one-time thing but my mind was screaming, “DO IT!”.  I tried to be calm as I quickly answered, “Sure. I’d love to.”

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He led me to his bedroom and removed all of his clothes. His dick was huge, thick, and already hard. Since this was my first time doing anything like this, I was a little shy while taking off my clothes but quickly overcame that when he kept checking out my body and asked me to turn around once I was naked. He said, “Damn! You’re all legs and ass!” I got on the bed and he got a condom from his suitcase. He started out on top. I was so wet he went inside me easily. He kept telling me I was tight and felt good. He picked up his pace and I had an orgasm. I could tell he was experienced because he knew how to control his pace and when to switch positions. We did: him standing with me on the edge of the bed, me belly down on the bed, me on top, him standing & him holding me in the air with my legs wrapped around him. We finished with me bent over the bed with him holding my hips from behind. I noticed the condom was full of his sperm. I told him that was the best sex I’d ever had. He wasn’t arrogant but I could tell he’d been told that before. We got dressed and I left shortly afterward.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? TJ eventually dropped out of school and we haven’t talked or texted since.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His penis! And having sex in different positions with an experienced partner.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wish I had given him oral.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’m usually well grounded and think things through. I never thought I would succumb to the pick-up line, “Would you like to go fuck?”. I’m glad I followed through.

Having spontaneous sex with a hot guy I just met made me feel good afterward. I’ve always been self-conscious about my appearance but this experience has helped me become more confident with my body.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I haven’t shared this story with anyone I know because most of my friends would ‘slut shame’ me for having sex with a guy I just met and falling for the line. I think if more people were put in that situation, without any fear of anyone finding out, they would have sex.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This is a good place to share stories.

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