What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Madrid
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Chemical and Food engineer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Always horny a bit perv
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Still happening
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is the first latin woman I’ve ever dated. She had a cute face, tan skin, big boobs, a nice ass, nice curves, and long brown/dark hair. What made me fall for her though, was her deadly stare. If she looks at you, she pierces you to your soul, I’m serious.
We met on a dating app, as being an Asian man in Europe is not easy. We have lot of stereotypes to tear apart before we can even get the chance to date. It was so easy to talk to her though. After the hook-up, I couldn’t get her off my mind. We kept texting and now we go on trips together 🙂
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So we met and start talking a lot. One night she said she would go out with some friends and asked if I wanted to join. We didn’t have sex that night, but we dance and teased each other a lot. We met the week after and I tooked her for dinner, then we went to my apartment. I was hard at all times during our date and felt a bit nervous. She was just really sweet and talkative, and I felt her leg slightly rubbing my hard-on; she laughed and said she was flattered. Right there, in that moment, I knew I would fall hard for her.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I had a previous relationship of 10 years. 3 out of those 10 years we didn’t have sex, I thought it was normal, I told myself ‘this is what happens once you are with someone for so long’. Oh boy I was wrong. I never had such a good blowjob in my life, and have never had someone sit on my face, which is something I personally enjoy. I always had issues cuming, but she pushes all my right buttons and touches all my right places. I feel like she’s such a goddess, almost like an inspiration. I also admit I had previous bad relationships or just regular casual sex. Everything feels new to me. I’m 35 and I’m fucking like I’ve never done before!!! Once I came 5 times in a period of 30 hours. She dries me out, every single time. I never knew how things were until I met her. I love to kiss her down there, and she likes my touch. She also taught me a lot, and now everything feels new. Like I never before came with the girl on top, but with her I do, every single time. Plus, she’s always wet! One look, and I can’t avoid feeling helpless and lost, like I need to have her.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We are together now. She’s been asking me not to cum inside because she could get pregnant, but honestly, I’m 35 and I earn well enough to take care of that responsibility, so I’m ready to settle down and all.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I only told my best asian friend, he wanted to know how a good is a latina too.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? HER
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We live quite far, so we are trying to make it work.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, she’s such goddess, a sultry latina and everyday I feel good about myself. I was a bit depressed of my dating game, but she taught me to use what I have.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? How sexual driven you can be in your mid thirties. Never thought I’d be fucking like a teenager.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? The way we see or portray Asian men in modern times. I do fulfill a stereotype: I have a stoic face, don’t laugh much, I’m calm and quiet, and not too loud, but during sex, I’m a different person. Yes, I don’t have a huge dick, but I play good. She’s still with me so I guess I haven’t disappointed her yet 🙂
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