What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Chicago, Illinios, US
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sales Rep
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 33
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? One
How long ago did this hookup happen? Two Days
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Currently I have three partners, nothing too serious but it allows me to be able to have sex when I want and need to. I will share a little about each.
Partner A- Pretty brunette in her early thirties, short with a curvy body and nice D cup breasts. I met her about a year ago at the supermarket one evening and we hit it off and I found an instant attraction to her. She is a single Mom and typically only available one or two nights a month for sex. However she is the favorite of my current partners. She likes to dress up and wears lingerie and wants to cut loose when we are together.
Partner B- Dark haired woman with a fit, muscular body and c cup breasts. She is in her late twenties the youngest of my current partners and the longest, we have been hooking up for two years. I met her at the gym one morning and typically she wants to have sex one or two nights a week and sometimes during the day if our schedules allow.
Partner C- Blonde professional type, tall with long legs and D cup breasts. She is in her early thirties and the newest addition to my gallery of partners. I met her at work a while back and she started fucking me just after her divorce was finalized. I had been there I get it. It’s only been about two months and this is her first strictly sexual relationship so we are still figuring that aspect of it out.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I have kept a similar pattern to the above for most of the past five years. I have tried dating but it’s just too much work. Keeping a few partners on call allows for me to be able to have sex when I want and need to. 3 is ideal, more is too much work and less means someone is not always available.
In keeping this to a single encounter lets head in that direction. Partner B, I will call her Angie had texted me during the day that she was free and a touch horny. I texted her back I wanted to see her and she came over around 8. I offered her a glass of wine and drank one myself just to relax a bit.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started kissing a bit and I kissed her neck. We are not two people unfamiliar with each other’s likes and dislikes in the bedroom and Angie likes a bit of foreplay. Clothes came off rather quickly and I gave her a massage with oil, something I like since I get to put my hands all over her. She has a fit muscular body and I enjoy having a partner as strong as her. After I finished that I began to kiss her a bit and then worked my way lower and began to suck on her breasts. Eventually I worked my way down to her pussy and began to lick it and Angie started to moan. She has gone down on me plenty and I like to make sure she enjoys herself. I gave her oral until she had an orgasm.
Angie relaxed for a few minutes and we chatted a bit and I sat on the end of the bed. She finally mounted me here and l thrust myself in her. She bounced up and down with my hands on her waist holding her up. Our sex is typically quite athletic. We both had orgasms and lay in bed next to each other for a bit and Angie asked if she could stay over, a little unusual because typically once we fuck Angie puts her clothes on and leaves. I said yes.
I awoke in the morning with her next to me and traced a tattoo on her lower back, she has a few small tattoos. Angie awoke and kissed me and then mounted me. She likes to be on top and in control and Angie rode me until we both came. I talked her into a shower with me, I enjoy showering with women but it’s not something I often get to enjoy with Angie. Afterwards she put her clothes on and kissed me goodbye and left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt pretty good the next day and Angie texted me that she had quite enjoyed herself. I will probably keep to a smilar pattern as above for a while but I have been considering the possibility of looking for a relationship again. All three women know we are not exclusive and that I have other partners. However as I said I might want a relationship. I really like Parnter A and wouldn’t mind actually dating her, and Partner C is also an option but Angie probably wouldn’t be, we have just been sleeping together too long an she is not really the relationship type.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history, Exchanged recent STI test results
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? People know I have partners but I keep my sexual activity to myslef
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Great Sex when I wanted it
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not sure there is a worst thing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I don’t think this has changed how I feel about casual sex, sexuality or myself other than my considerations about maybe having a relationship again.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I will try and add posts about my other partners when I get time
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would say it has played a huge role in my life and in society and it is certainly more open that it used to be. Not sure I want to see anything changed in that area
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s interesting
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